Why so many men listed as straight suck cock: Swingers Discussion 196495101

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Why so many men listed as straight suck cock: Swingers Discussion 196495101

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TOPIC: Why so many men listed as straight suck cock

Created by: Green_At_This Original Starting post for this thread:
We have found that the great majority of the men that we contact or contact us are listed as straight, and within one sentence we learn that the great majority want to suck cock or be sucked by a man. Are we in the minority here with this type of experience? Does this happen to you? I am the guy writing here.

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User Details are only visible to members.	It's really about homophobia. Some guys think it is great to promote that their female partner is bi, but to admit that they themselves are interested in bi play would leave them open to ridicule and isolation. I am TOTALLY BI. Not out in public or with family, but this is SLS. If you can't be yourself on here where can you be? We are very new to this lifestyle, but it is somewhat frustrating to see how so many people are not as open to bi males as they are with bi females.
Whitehall PA			Username hidden (7 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have no interest in playing solo with another male so I don't consider myself to be BI. However in a threesome situation if the other male wants to do a little touching and sucking I am not going to get angry or run away. My wife and I just go with the flow.
Pass Christian MS			Username hidden (31 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I've had many men contact me on here who say they're straight. I don't believe in labels. Just get naked and have fun
Los Angeles CA			Username hidden (7 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Look people if you are guy who thinks of a hot dick in your mouth makes you horney then you are BI. No if ands or butts. If you do get feeling horney thinking about dicks thenlist yourself as BI not straight because you are BI. Labels may be labels but you are what you are. Get over it and tell the truth.
Moore SC			Username hidden (31 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I don't understand what is so mysterious about the sexual mature of men. As babies boys naturally discover and play with their own penises. As adolescent boys we jack off almost every waking hour until it hurts if unattended by adults. As adolescent boys, horny as hell without female sexual outlets, we play with other boys our age. Some of us are led into sex play as adolescents with older males and it feels good and we never tell on the molester. Upon reaching 16 years old and driving cars on dates with girls we went "parking" and after kissing awhile we take our date's had and guide it into our pants. Men never admit to each other that as boys we played with and even sucked several different cocks. Then there is the larger swinging community that will have nothing to do with "bi" men. I list myself as a strait man, I also mention in my profile I've been molested and had sex with men/boys as a preteen. I failed to mention that all the while I fantasized about sex with women with my brother's Playboys while too young to be able to exercise that option. All the while there were a lot of boys my age experiencing the same needs and urges. Were we "bi" at 8 or 9 years old? I think we were just hormonally charged boys with no other outlet. That was six out of ten local friends I knew about and heard stories of their brothers not in our circle doing the same.
Harbor City CA			Username hidden (4 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree with several of the posts...couples who list him as str8, even though he is bi or bi curious (and she knows it), do not want to alienate other couples who have no interest in mm play as part of a 4some. As a solo bi man, 95% of the emails and chat requests I receive from couples with hubby listed as str8 are actually from bi/bi curious hubbies looking to play mm on the side and she does NOT know it. The hubbies are honest and tell me upfront they want to meet alone and I have no qualms chatting or meeting if they are a male match for me. I only email or initiate chat with couples who list him as bi or bi curious.
Forsyth GA			Username hidden (115 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree. Im not disputing that one bit. There is a revolving debate that has gone on here for years about guys listing as straight when they are in fact open to bi play. In my fact based opinion, from years on here and other places, the number of guys open to light bi play far outnumbers guys who are totally 100% straight. But reading the tags on the profiles, you would not think that was the case. Some couples will automatically reject a guy if he is open to that even if it is a small part of his interest and he is perfectly content playing straight. So for those who are mainly looking for straight play, but can be flexible if the situation warrants, they will list as straight but then explain in an email that they are open.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Joey, Biguy, Haven't you noticed there are levels of straight? You just have to understand what level the guy is on. "Completely straight" "100% straight", "totally straight" "very straight". In reading profiles, you will either be very entertained or develop a complex.
Denham Springs LA			Username hidden (61 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You are spot on, Joey. Every couple I have played with on SLS lists the guy as straight.
Garden City NY			Username hidden (239 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The silly argument lives as in 'well you cannot catch everyone' as if that is a reason for throwing up your hands and doing nothing.
Stamford CT			Username hidden (39 post)

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TOPIC: Why so many men listed as straight suck cock