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TOPIC: Profile Help
Created by: ga_bi_male
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Have seen a lot of great advice here in the forums and thought I would turn to the wise people here for help.

Please read my profile and tell me what I have done wrong. I have been completly honest in all aspects and can't even get a bi couple to respond to any mails. No, I don't mail "Let's fuck" or any of the short crude mails I see a lot of from other men. Any help or pointers would be greatly appreciated.

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Kinda repeating others.

Pictures are number 1. We dont even open an email if there are no pictures on the profile.

I would write in your profile a paragraph about your understanding of the lifestyle, your understanding of your role with a couple. And emphasize your seriousness about meeting for real and having fun. (Without sounding pushy)

Keep something in mind. A couple gets a ton of emails from single guys, young, old, hot, hung, ugly, skinny, built, fat, you name it.

You need to set yourself apart from them.

While yes. A young, built, hot, hung guy will get our attention. He also will turn us off in 2 minutes when we realize he is too new, scared, and shy to leave his computer.

We would rather meet an "average" but REAL person than go back and forth playing word games with "hotties" that will just waste our time.

This is not downing myself. But as a guy, Im not ugly or fat by any means, but I also know that I wont be a couples "first choice" when they are looking at profiles. (when i had a single profile)

But Im ok with that. I write a profile and an email that they wont respond right away, it will sit in their inbox. They will go through the "hot and hungs" and after a while of nothing but games and frustration, they will come upon my email again. And BAM, a day later im in their bedroom.

And thats just fine with me.

Mount Juliet TN
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Pictures. Most won't even reply if you don't have pics.

Osterburg PA
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We agree with that. We read the profile and it should have at least a few pics, g-rated is fine. Put other pics in private if you wish. We would not contact you as it is and if you contacted us, it would be the first thing we wrote back. Also, we think the profile focuses too much on sex and not a little about yourself. That is our preference though, it may be whom you are wanting to meet is appropriate for that message. P & K

Guerneville CA
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If you don't have pictures most will not give you the time of day.

Philadelphia PA
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Thanks woodworker. I am hung. Hung like a mole cricket but can lick my eyebrows. Think that will help?

Moultrie GA
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Have seen a lot of great advice here in the forums and thought I would turn to the wise people here for help.

Please read my profile and tell me what I have done wrong. I have been completly honest in all aspects and can't even get a bi couple to respond to any mails. No, I don't mail "Let's fuck" or any of the short crude mails I see a lot of from other men. Any help or pointers would be greatly appreciated.

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TOPIC: Profile Help