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Practice on yourself when you're alone. The benefits:
First, no pressure, no expectations Second, you can react and slow down or take a break BEFORE it gets too overwhelming. |
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After getting a good lube, start off with something small - like a finger or thumb; relax as much as you can and, if you can, try not to anticipate - that'll make you tense up. Have whomever's doing this go slowly so you can have time to get used to the feeling. Using a disposable glove with lube on it works, too - avoids potentially sharp nails! Once you're used to fingers, then graduate to plugs - they come in various sizes. And most of all, cleanliness is important!
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You can start by using a series of butt plugs. Start with a very small one and work your way up. It may tae a few weeks before you are comfortable. IE: Everyday when you take a shower might be a good time.
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