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"Pardon me, I thought you could grasp it. I'll try to make it simple."

I don't need simple, I just need the question(like I asked). Grasp is not an issue for me once having a point of reference.

"Both those quotes are from your posts. One claims bi is bi, there is no degree. The other claims that limits are degrees. These two claims seem to be in contradiction. Care to explain?"

Let's take a close look at the first quote of mine. Is that the full quote...or did you pull what you thought you could use, add some words that are not even in the quote and try and use it against me? There is no "there is no degree" in that quote. Where did that come from? Not me...scroll down and re-read my post. Not even there is it? Next time, use the whole fucking thing in context from beginning capital letter to end period point of the last sentence if you're going to try to hack my work(fucking amateur)...seriously. Below is the exact quote of mine:

"No matter how little or how much you do, bi is bi...everything else in-between or beyond is fodder for discussion. I'm limited in my M2M play...I'm bi. If I choose to do everything that can be done...I'm still bi."

Do you understand what "everything else in-between or beyond is fodder for discussion" means? Everything else in-between means the degree between how little and how much between those two end points. There's lots of room between how little and how much...I know so, that's why I put it into that statement in the first place. It gave myself wiggle room to explain if some asshole had a reading comprehension problem.

Now, lets look at the other "quote" of mine that you wield with difficulty. My quote follows below:

"Limits are degrees, try again."

A lesser mind would see the contradiction...here's where I will explain. I am of the opinion that curiosity ends at the point of contact. Once contact has been made, whether contact after that or not is continued...curiosity ends. After contact, you are bi...simple as that. You've experienced the pleasures of the same sex and there's no taking it back(no putting the milk back into the glass after it's been spilled unto the floor) as I see things.

After bi sexuality has been established through the initial experience(first time), one will make the conscious choice to how far this bi sexuality will go? We each decide how far we choose to go. I stop after blowjobs and go no further(I'm still bi) mind you. Others will push things a little further and do anal as well and stop there(their still bi) mind you. Still, others with try rimming as well as anal & blow jobs(their still bi)mind you. Others will go past those three things and try other things in M2M play like kissing, caressing, hand holding(in private and not), cum swap, feltching and anything associated with physical contact(sexual to a degree) that evolves in M2M play.

Those mentioned above are varying degrees of bi sexual play. There are varying degrees of experience in everything within life, why would bi sexual play be any different. I have to figure it's because it's a touchy subject for you guys and you don't know how to handle/talk about it without getting your pretty pink panties all twisted in a knot.

Go figure.

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"Think about it. Do hetro couples have limits that restrict certain play? I think probably so."

I'd say 90% of the members of this website restrict certain play that is not for them. Whether it's "we don't swing separately" or "we don't play without condoms" or "no single males please" or "soft swap only" and the many more out there that pertains to a degree of play that they themselves have chosen not to exercise.

"Bi people set limits also but it wont change the fact they are bisexual. Is a bi guy less bi if he sucks but wont fuck? Hell no! It just means he has set a limit for himself and that should be respected."

This has been my contention all along about this subject. Please cut and past anything I stated that was contrary to that fact. I made a post where I said there are "levels of curiosity" & "levels of bi sexuality" due to the limits of restriction one chooses to exercise. That degree of play one finds comfortable for him/herself is not some imagined "degree of biness" as in your counter post.

My opinion is curiosity ends at the point of contact. Once crossing that physical threshold, no matter the degree of interaction from thereon out...you are bi sexual and no longer curious.

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"An open ended question mark does nothing for me" As your answer is doing nothing for me. Think about it. Do hetro couples have limits that restrict certain play? I think probably so. Bi people set limits also but it wont change the fact they are bisexual. Is a bi guy less bi if he sucks but wont fuck? Hell no! It just means he has set a limit for himself and that should be respected.

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"Limits are degrees, try again."

"?"

If you have a question, I'll give it my best to answer. An open ended question mark does nothing for me.

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"Limits are set by the individual and really have no effect on some imangend "degree of biness"."

Limits are degrees, try again.

" Limits you set for the things you will do with same sex is a whole different question. "

Limits is the question on a thread that ask " How bi am I?".

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I believe that you are attracted to both sexes or not! thus back to basics, bi means 2 and in this case both since there really is only 2. there are limits in both worlds and many many hetero people have activities that will not participate in, just like there are activities that different bi people wont do. Limits are set by the individual and really have no effect on some imangend "degree of biness". You do same sex or you don't! simple as that. Limits you set for the things you will do with same sex is a whole different question.

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You say it like it is a bad thing ;)

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It's like being a little bit pregnant, you are or you aren't,

But I have to agree, you can be curious, till the point of contact, then you either are or you aren't.

My body is a Bi virgin, my mind is a Bi slut!

San Diego CA
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"Tie me to the bed and use me"

OK, tie me up! I'm yours.

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the way we see it is that there are a few different levels to being bi:

Not bi: shouldn't need to explain this Slightly bi: May be light touch but that's about it nothing major or a lot of fun. Completly bi: nothing is out of the question "Tie me to the bed and use me" one of my fav lines!

Then you have your various versions of being bi: Left of center: Likes both sexes but prefers opposite over same if given the choice Center: Just give it to me I don't care who Right of center: Prefers same sex over opposite if given the choice

Lie curious: "Hi I'm bi and would like to hook up with you guys, I don't mind if your hubby goes down on me" This means he doesn't care who's mouth is around him as long as he scores at the end of the night...lie curious how far can the lie get him in other words.

These are just our beliefs take 'em or leave 'em :)

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