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jand t wish you were closer ...it might be fun :)

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Basically, many couples with bi men do not advertise it or admit that the male/hubby is bi or bi-curious because it scares off potential couples who may be homophobic or have fear of disease. It has been my experience that couples with closeted bi males will contact other males on their own when they decide to meet men for 3somes. I have met several nice couples and enjoyed playing with her and him...very fun and intimate !

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I agree that there is a stigma attached and that is why people are less comfortable with the idea of it. My fiance and other girls i have been with have led me to believe that all women are bisexual. The difference between most men on here and many in the "real world" is that in society being a lesbian is considered hot by most women and most men, whereas a man with a man is considered dirty. The society is what causes this stigma. In a different community, such as New York or San Francisco for examples, in addition to many other places all over the world, there are many less stigmas and they are much less strongly believed. I suggest planning a vaction, meeting someone in the lifestyle through the internet. Somewhere outside the country might be best b/c gay rights are relatively new here, whereas in many other places it is an old tradition. In these places people are much more comfortable with all aspects of sexuality. That may be what we do soon to try something new in a different place where we are more comfortable about doing what we want to do.

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JandTSwing

I posted this to another thread. Reposting it here for continuity.

If you aren't sure about you with another M she shouldn't expect you to try it anymore than she should do something she isn't interested in just because you would like to see her doing it. Of course if you are open to MM then the possibilities of MFM are endless. Communication is key before deciding to try anything new.

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Give it time, get to know the lay of the land first, after all you've only been a member for only a month. Couples will contact you sooner or later, with this site Patience pays off.

Or you can do a search and contact a few couples yourself in your area.

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You're right, a significant percentage of couples won't have anything to do with bi-males, so lots of couples with bi males list the male as straight. They're easy enough to find, when a couple with a straight male approaches you, say you are interested only in couples with a bi male. Many times they will write back saying the male is really bi or bi-curious.

/tongue in cheek, sorta. But it is also true.

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It seems tons of couples have bi or bi-curious women, but few if any have bi or bi-curious men. As someone who'd love to explore that aspect of himself with his partner and another man or couple, it seems like there's some kind of stigma attached to male bi play.

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