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Sure seems kinda funny to me. We both list ourselves as bi curious because we want to find a couple who is the same. I honestly don't care about finding someone who is not in the same mindset so I find no reason to lie about it.

If you are bi and list yourself as straight, you are essentially starting off any relationship you may build off of a lie. If you are willing to lie about that, what else are you willing to lie about just to get laid or interest? How can anyone believe anything in your profile if the main search that turned you up as a possible match was a complete farce?

IMO, I say just be honest with who you are and the rest will work itself out.

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We were part of a swingers group in Minnesota when we first started. We were invited to parties and other events regularly. Some how the group found out we had a single bi guy that we played with. We were black listed, just because I am bi. A lot of the men can't deal with a guy being bi. Not listing the man as bi will help you not be overlooked. I wish it wasn't like that, I mean the woman is expected to be bi in most groups, but not us guys. Now we live in Iowa ware it is very difficult to find open minded people to play with.

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In mississippi its very hard to find a bi couple and when you do it usually no blacks can play and some.groups here are not black or single male friend. I can't wait to go back to NC

Canton MS
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I agree! Most men/couples say they are straight but when I (f) tell the male half that bi males are a big turn on for me then they will admit to being curious to some extent. Except for my own very straight husband. The thought of him with another man is very arousing for me but not for him.

Brooklyn KY
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Melran, I can see why you turn heads, I wish I was closer to you.

Devon PA
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I feel the same way, why is it? I listed on my profile that I was Bi and was told that I should change it. This would shy people away. My lifestyle is only really accepted by the GAY community and the community I really want to be accepted in and says that they are open minded get shunned away from.

My wife and I are very interesting people. We both like to play with both sexes. We walk the mall and both of us turn our head for the beautiful people of either sex. We do like to party, be naked and explore new adventures. We just want to meet like minded people. Not to be ashamed.

Nashua NH
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I have to say I have met some great couples where the man is bi and the wife loved it. I don't know what my success rate is compared to other guys but then again I try to limit my exposure to some degree and don't just hop from one couple to the next.

But now... I am starting to date a woman who is a nudist\bi and has swung once or twice in a previous relationship. We have been very honest with each other on all topics and I have answered any question that she might have had.. Except the bi aspect of the couples I dated. She knows that I have experience with couples and that I have dated them before...

Also, If I never have MMF Bi sex again... I'm fine with that. It's fun but it's a diversion for me, not necessarily a lifestyle. So I still sit and weigh the pro's & con's of telling her. She is pretty open about most thing but she is also a country girl with a FEW old fashioned values...

Just a little part of my story I wanted to share....

Lake Worth TX
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"I understand, i have hidden all my life, in public...but whats the point here?"

Here is also public, this site is not private. Anyone can sign up as a free member & browse. Free members are not even age verified.

Bedford PA
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I openly state on my profile on this site (and other sites) that I am bi. I only occasionally get emails and chat requests from "couples". 9 times out of 10 it is the bimale of the couple (or a single bi or gay man posing as a couple) asking if I might like to meet him alone. The reality of the situation is that there are not very many real couples in which the wife/gf has any desire to see her husband/bf having sex with men. The wife wants to be pampered and ravaged by other men and her husband likes and wants to watch, but has his own private desire for men. I tell him that it is fine with me to meet alone. I openly seek bi married men for 1 on 1 fun too.

Conversely, I do not contact couples via chat or email UNLESS their profile states that he is bi or bi curious and that she will be a full participant in the scene. Guess what? 9 times of out 10, they don't respond. The good news is that the 1 out of 10 couples who contact me or whom I contact is sincere and legitimate (and HOT) and really do get into bi mmf 3somes !

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Humble too, lol

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