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I openly state on my profile on this site (and other sites) that I am bi. I only occasionally get emails and chat requests from "couples". 9 times out of 10 it is the bimale of the couple (or a single bi or gay man posing as a couple) asking if I might like to meet him alone. The reality of the situation is that there are not very many real couples in which the wife/gf has any desire to see her husband/bf having sex with men. The wife wants to be pampered and ravaged by other men and her husband likes and wants to watch, but has his own private desire for men. I tell him that it is fine with me to meet alone. I openly seek bi married men for 1 on 1 fun too.

Conversely, I do not contact couples via chat or email UNLESS their profile states that he is bi or bi curious and that she will be a full participant in the scene. Guess what? 9 times of out 10, they don't respond. The good news is that the 1 out of 10 couples who contact me or whom I contact is sincere and legitimate (and HOT) and really do get into bi mmf 3somes !

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Humble too, lol

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I guess I am just a good looking guy and they want me.I really don't understand it myself, I am open minded so maybe they think I will go for it..I understand most thing .some thing are just a guess....bububububye

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probably want to swing each others bats lol

Rockport MA
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you're right bicoup, straight guy hitting on straight guy, what do they do? talk about baseball?

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Thats very interesting Big, straight men hitting on straight men. BUBUBUBYE

Carrollton VA
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why is it diffucult it is call machoism.a lot af men want to ,but they dont want any body else to know. I get hit up all the time by striaght men.bubububye

Kingston TN
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I have found that the acceptiance of bi-men is not even acceptable in the lifestyle. It is amazing how many people after we meet or when chating and we are about to meet, will tell my husband that they are bi. Just can't get all the replys they want on here admiting they are bi. We find that honesty is the best policy, after all we only really want to meet those that have our interests.

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we believe honesty is the best policy. we're not ashamed of who we are, and it hasn't stopped us from having fun. On the contrary, when you ask for exactly what you want, that's exactly what you get.

Nutley NJ
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pNd

Well, that's what I get for being a speed reader!!! LOL

Whew! Delighted to realize you were making fun of people who make fun of bi males. ;)

You are right about risk. All we can do is make our best assessment.

A thought on condoms though: condoms break too. If they didn't, the pill probably would have taken decades longer to be invented. I'd feel better having unprotected sex with a couple we know well than a wild and crazy single male with one. But then again, that's just my personal assessment of risk.

Nice chatting with you!

Diane

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