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TOPIC: Double standard when it comes to bi guys in the lifestyle
Created by: silksheets
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It is pretty interesting how in this lifestyle bi males are looked at in a negative way and bi females are accepted and encouraged? We can tell you that 99% of the couples who contact us their profiles claims the male to be straight but the email to us says he is bi this is pretty sad that people feel they can not be honest and need to lie to be looked at in a positive way! So many people in this lifestyle claim they are open minded but refuse to even engage in email with a couple who have a bi male? Why do they think all bi males are disease ridden and bi females are looked at in a totally positive light?
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That's the attitude. If you are a couple who both unashamedly enjoy and/orprefer sex with bi males, it is definitely the way to go ! There will never be a shortage of bi men, married or single who are eager willing to join you :)

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Billandsuzie

Here, here!

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I discussed this with the wife and she surprised me by saying to leave my listing as bi because she dosen't want to play with some homophob and besides, why should we hide who we are? Someone is fraked out by bi men are not hi on our to do list. If you don't like us as is just pass on by. No need to waste eachother's time.

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There have been so many posts on this. I say list your orientation based upon the primary type of play you are looking for and then gear your email toward the their preferences.

If your primary preference is women, or playing with the woman of the couple. Then it would be better to list as straight, since many couples will exclude "bi men" simply for being listed that way.

If you want to primarily attract bi couples or men, youre better listing as bi so you come up in their search.

A lot of guys are mostly into women but can be a little flexible in the bedroom under the right circumstances. Does that make them bi? Technically yes. But its pointless information to list if youre primarily looking for women.

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We agree and its been our experience that the guys that wont/cant say they are bi lack balls and the guys that claim to be 101% straight lack imagination,just saying

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Also, it amazes me how "straight" males tend to follow their curiosity onto "BI MALE" forums.....whats that point of you being on here, bisquits, aside from you not "bias" views to bi males? Either way, its pretty pathetic. lol

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Like everyone else, it is irony with many of the things biscuits tends to say. Whether it's being in this promicuious lifestyle that has a surprisingly big number of <strong>STRAIGHT</strong> couples that would actually have unsafe sex with others , AND, those in that same demographic like biscuits saying they won't play or even consider bi-males because of (yet another) b.s. statistic that they looked for online for 5 minutes (that coincidentally only looks at HIV/AIDS as if it's the only STD in the world compared to all others that are out there) giving them (in this and other cases, the female) the main reason why not to play with bi-males. Even though, its BECAUSE OF THAT REASON, that bi-males choose to lie and put straight on their profile. I have, am and always will play safe no matter who I play with, especially in this lifestlye. Thats my personal rule. I'm clean (which those statistics doesn't mean shit to me, and makes me roll my eyes even more) and I 'd like to stay that way. Anyway, it's funny, because you, your wife, and other couples that think the same way like you two.....are just shooting yourselves in the foot with your reason. Because it's you thinking that way, thats going to continue the endless cycle of : "No bi men", the bi male changes his orientation to "straight", fools you, and thus becoming the very thing you don't like. So unless your wife wants to stop this lifestlye or just fuck you as far as men go, you either have to deal with questioning if that single or married guy is really "straight" or get rid of your what you don't think is "bias"

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I,too, have gotten replies from men who list as "straight" in a couple that want to play without the female half. I always wonder if the female half even knows about what he is doing, or if he is cheating on her. I am not here for drama, so I politely say no. I am bi and not going to lie about it. Honesty is a big thing in the lifestyle for me.

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hot_biscuits Reading you last couple posts, I have to wonder why you are still in the life style. Perhaps you only involvement is in cyber space?

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Well said, IFlirt.

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TOPIC: Double standard when it comes to bi guys in the lifestyle