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TOPIC: Bisexual or Gay
Created by: oakleybiguy
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Okay, I always looked at homosexuality as wanting an emotional attachment to another male. I do not want that nor do I want to be in a relationship with a man. I love being in a relationship with a woman. I consider myself to be bisexual. But when it comes to sex, I prefer sex with men. I have sex with women but I am usually thinking of another man. I love the feel of a man pressed up against me. I have orgasms from anal sex, without even touching my dick. That has never happened with a women. I even have orgasms when using my dildos. I watch gay porn mostly, even when I watch porn with my girlfriend, I am mostly watching the man. My girlfriend knows this so when she fast forwards the movie , she will stop at the oral and cumshots scenes for me. Would the men and women on this site consider me to be gay? Don't get me wrong, I enjoy sex with women, but given the choice, I will choose to have sex with a man 99 times out of 100.

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And a "Trysexual" label, if it's sexual, we'll try it.

Osterburg PA
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LOL @billnsuzie, I remember that routine, and its right to the point here! ;)

Knightdale NC
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You can call me Ray, or you can call me Jay, you can call me Rayjay, but you don't have to call me Mr Johnson. How many people remember that routine? If you do your too old for me haha. " Frankly, I don't give a damm" what you call me, just call me.

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@bdrb4more, well said. I mostly agree, though I would say that everyone is bi or potentially so, whether they acknowledge it or not. Where they currently are on the scale is for them to determine.

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I identify as bisexual. I like sex with men but I prefer relationships with women. I lean towards preferring sex with women than men also. Does that make me less bi than you because I prefer sex with women? I don't think so. In all honesty, I prefer sex with both simultaneously, if that's an option.

You are what you say you are, not what any of us say you are. If you think of yourself as bisexual, then you are bisexual. No one else can define you, only you can do that.

I know I'm a bit late to this conversation (new member) but the simple reality is we are complex beings who are constantly changing and evolving. There are plenty of people who will want to put you in a box so it's easy to define you. We are not easily defined. Does it really matter if you're bi or gay? Will that definition change anything about who you really are?

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Call me anything except late for supper :)

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Call me whatever you want, just don't forget to play with my ass and cock.

Salem OR
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Well said CurEUs_cpl, I thoroughly agree!

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It's not a black and white thing. Lots (more than 50) of shades between the twp ends. Worry less about the labile, and work out your own definition. It can be very fluid too. What is solid on your list of desires as a yes, no or maybe today, may well change in a day, a week, a month, or a year (years?).

No reason to get hung up about it.

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Don't quite agree with GFandME, I think everyone is bi, at least potentially, and that you are bi as well, but that you are more on the gay side than hetero.

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TOPIC: Bisexual or Gay