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TOPIC: Are_you_more_comfortable_with_a_female_present_or_not_when_enjoying_bi_sex
Created by: biandbi804
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Some guys are more comfortable with bi sex when a female is present urging things along. Others feel inhibited with a female present. What is your preference? If married, what does your wife think about bi sex for you and how do you handle it?

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My first experience came with a couple, it was fantastic. Was very relaxed and comfortable, oral given and received by all. Since then I've had a couple guy on guy bjs and it was just very tense and uncomfortable. Definitely prefer being with a couple over one on one.

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My wife is very supportive, encouraging, goes with me to meet potential single bi guys to play with and enjoys being present, naked, playing with me and playing with her tits and pussy while I'm playing with another guy!!! We both decide if we would be comfortable with the guy before inviting him to play.

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I think having a woman to participate makes it much more exciting, but if I was comfortable with a guy, then guy only would be fun as well. So many people seem to be hung up on whether a guy is gay or bi, I don't know, I only know that I know quite a few gay men and women and they don't seem to have an interest in the opposite sex. Or maybe that's what they say in public, again I don't really know. I am only want a woman for my life partner, but think sex with either sex is fine, it all feels good.

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I have done and enjoyed both, but I must say I prefer having the woman present with her either directing or participating; for me that is the best of both words. I really like having a couple strip me naked and both use me as a sex toy to fulfill their fantasies. That is a real turn on for me.....

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i think friendly and flirty is sexy but haven't found the right couple or guy yet... what makes my cock hard i like to act on but i want my wife to know about it and i don't want to keep things from her so i share and let her bring them to me.. She gets intrigued bi it..

AS of yet though we just haven't met the right couple.

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Like bill said..

My attraction has changed too.

Ill say...I LOVE playing with couples. I do enjoy having both at the same time. But thats only because its something different and exciting.

If I had the choice of a bi couple or just a guy. I would probably take the couple.

A guy who is "only bi with a woman around" makes me uncomfortable. Thats why my wife and I specify that we want a guy for couple play and ALSO one on one play with each of us.

Its something, while I dont condemn, I just dont understand it, so we avoid it.

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I (male half) agree with Joey and I even played the same game when i was much younger. Now I find my comphort level varies with the situation. There are times whe I would prefer to be alone with another guy and sometimes haveing a woman there is a turn on. I also find in my senior years that I am more attracted by personality than by gender.

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I much prefer a woman be there, especially one turned on by the whole idea and participating, watching, maybe even directing! While I love bi play in that situation, I'm not really turned on by one-on-one meetings with a man ...

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For me, I'm equally as comfortable either way. I've had some great experiences alone with other guys and I've had some great experiences with my wife present. As for my wife, she loves to be present. She gets extremely turned on by the experience.

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It all has to do with where your head is and if you have personal reservations.

Joe speaking:

Im just a very very sexual person overall. I enjoy intimate times with people regardless of equipment. I get equal pleasure from both sexes.

So to be with a guy or a girl, is all the same to me. I dont think much into it. Besides equipment, there isnt a difference in my opinion.

However many guys have hangups in their head and worry that being one on one with a guy will make them "gay" or something so they need the comfort of a woman around so they can always say "it was in the heat of the moment"

Its just like the game I used to play years ago when I first started playing with a guy.

I would always have to be drunk and let him "take advantage of me"

This way when I sobered up.....I could always say "well i was drunk"

The only thing with that was.

I was never drunk to the point of not knowing what was going on, and it was just a game I played. I knew what I wanted, I knew what I liked.......But getting "drunk" would always give me the peace of mind having an "out" should I be confronted.

Im only describing myself...So Im not trying to knock guys who only play with couples.

I can totally understand that too. I like playing with couples and I can see the draw where its a heck of a lot more fun for a bi-guy.

So to have a PREFERENCE for playing with couples I can understand.

But someone who is "only bi if a woman is around" I believe is playing a game with their own mind.

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