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User Details are only visible to members.	Well forest, if you are in the minority, then so are we. We are/were in the similar situation as you. She was curious when she first thought of being with a woman, but then the more she thought about it, the more she decided she was completely bi. The hubby in this situation had no interest at stake, either way. We are just as complete with or without this situation, but she wanted to explore what it would be like. A little while back she decided that she was and changed her's to fully bi, and recently she has gotten to have an oppertunity to be with a female, actually 2 different ones, and is positive she is. But there sometimes is a generalization to being bi-curious, and it doesn't always have to do with the husband wanting it. Sometimes woman just see another female and go wow I wouldn't mind getting a little of that to myself, and then again some try it and it isn't for them. Sometimes it is just a matter of trying it and seeing if it is for you.
Cassopolis MI			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Once again the problem is with labels. None of us are labels and no label describes even a tiny portion of the being we are. Each person has very different definitions of what bi means. I like the Kinsey definition that is a scale of bi, a spectrum rather than a yes or no. He envisioned attraction to the same sex on a scale of one to ten, with five being evenly bi. In other words at five you are equally attracted to males and females. At one you are only attracted to the opposite sex, and at ten you are only attracted to the same sex. So where are you? For me I'd say around 2.5, in that I'm definitely more attracted to women and would likely only form a relationship with a woman, but I do enjoy very much going down on both woman and men. Raven seems more a 5. My love and I both list as bi because we've had some real amount of experience and feel more than just curious. That label says nothing about preferences in who of the same sex we find attractive. We all have preferences in attraction, whether they be picky or any and everyone. And we all have preferenced for both sexes. Certainly if you're not willing to go down on a woman or a man, I'd say you're not bi and probably not bi curious. Enjoying only when the same sex goes down on you and not you on them, has less to do with your sexual preference than it does with your desire to be pleasured. This is my opinion only and not a RULE. Your own opinion is what counts for you.
Enosburg Falls VT			Username hidden (969 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	men, men, men...most if not all want to see there female mate in bed with another woman. but after 10-20 times it grows old with them and all they want to do is get in on the action asap. just my opinion but I believe men want there wifes to be bi to bring another woman into the bedroom so he can enjoy a fmf.
Nazareth PA			Username hidden (166 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I haven't read the other responses yet, but actually think the very same thing why others list bi-curious on their profile. Some bounce back and forth so many times from straight, to bi curious to bi, and then straight again as well, that always leaves me scratching my head, but hey to each their own. The reason I list bicurious is very simple. I have not yet had a full blown bi experience solely with another woman. Most women that i have met in the past 6 years of being in the lifestyle, always claim bi or bi curious on their profiles but I have yet to actually meet one. Most are "show bi's" meaning exactly, they are not really into it, but will appease their partner to an extent. I don't consider kissing another woman, bi, not in the least but quite a few I have met, well, that was very bi to them. Others I have met who claim to be "bi", well, let's just say I was way more "bi" with them and they honestly didn't seem bi at all. I know attraction is huge in my world of looking for females to experiment with in my sexuality, and maybe every time and every couple we have met of the woman being bi or bi curious, just didn't have that attraction for me, which I highly doubt. Our very first experiences in the lifestyle are the only exceptions where the woman was truly bi, but I was just beginning, and I thoroughly enjoyed those women. Since that time, well over 4 years, I haven't met one bi or truly bi curious woman. Jan
Johnstown PA			Username hidden (11993 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi... Laura here. I'm new to these forums, but have been on SLS for a while. I have "bi-curious" on my profile because at this point I'm exactly that. Curious. I am VERY physically attracted to women... and the thought of being with a woman excites me beyond belief. I AM just as interested in performing oral sex on a woman as I am in having her "do" me... apparently unlike most "bi-curious" women. My question is, should I change my profile, or maybe include somewhere on there what the term means in my case? Since I haven't actually experienced sex with a woman, I hesitate to say bisexual.. but maybe I should.
Albertville AL			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You already know that answer in your heart hun. I can't answer that for you... IMPO, Curious should be a temp term. Once you have experimented a time or two, you should know the answer. They should have more terms I guess, even though it still won't make the person truly bi. It just gives more options for sexual encounters. I see bi-curious as 85% do her only. That's NOT bi! That 85% is merely a do-me situation, and usually they could care less at that point if it's male or female. Personally, I could definitely have a live-in relationship with a female and consider her my true partner, same as a male. I'm very open to whom my next life partner will be.
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	and to add.... IMO, those that stay bi-curious forever do that cause they know deep down they aren't really bi to begin with.
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I see bi as something in your soul and you have known or suspected from the beginning of discovering yourself. I have always been bi-sexual and just as attracted to females as I was to males for as long as I can remember. IMO, those that are confused as to bi or bi-curious one day and straight the next are either doing a fashion statement or making hubby happy no matter how hard they try to convince others otherwise.
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Of course everyone has different reasons and there isnt one simple ansewer. I am listed bi curious, because I do enjoy playing with women and I actually prefer to go down on her not the other way around. I get so wet if I can bring a woman to orgasm and if I get that hot I then want a good hard cock to finish me off. I would not have any interest in playing with just the female in a couple and thats why I list as bi-curious.
Panama City Beach FL			Username hidden (118 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Bi-curious can even mean bi-selfish.... meaning....she will let the bi-female of another couple do anything to HER, but she won't do anything to her in return. I prefer a bi female who is truly BI. I want to share with her my tongue and hers in return. Then share our husbands cocks.
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