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We list her as bi-curious because she prefers men. She has always played (with enthusiasm) with women too and had a great time. We both decided to leave her as bi-curious because we were afraid there might be a lot of women who just wanted to play with her only if she listed as fully bi, and that isn't what interests her - she mainly likes multiple men and a little play with the female of a couple or second girl.

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Don't worry about what label you choose because as demonstrated here, each person has a different definition of what bi or bi curious means, so there is no way to make it right for them all. Make it right for yourself. You are the only one who can say what bi or bi curious means to you.

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thanks Licks.

I like to play with women, I don't want a relationship with a woman.

Mrs Voya

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Poly is it something you care to share?

I am debating whether to change my stats to Bi, I feel changing it to Bi people will know I have had some Bi experince. But I dont like the label Bi because I only like playing with women. Oh well maybe I am over thinking this, who really cares LOL

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It's all about the human need to categorize because things seem more secure when bounded by nice, neat categories. They aren't, but as humans we tend to believe they are. Stepping beyond categories is the hallmark of adventure and learning. If you've defined bi-curious in your own mind, then you've hardened your mind against finding out more.

My guess is that the label came out as flag for those who had long fantasized about another woman but had not yet tried. Sometimes it takes more than once to say you've really tried. And some may keep the label because they are still trying, reality not quite living up to fantasy.

Each person means something different by each label. So not taking that into consideration will limit your experience of people and what they mean. Labels are more like a standard greeting. They open the conversation but don't really tell you much.

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lol, i like that, pretty good definition

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Sometimes just stating your own personal boundaries (she says she "won't" do this or that) gives her the power and the freedom to then break those herself. She isn't then breaking "your" boundaries or your marital boundaries then...she's giving herself the freedom and permission to change her mind, to open her limits, etc. and to change her OWN personal choices. Just sail on.

G.

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I've got a complaint. Mine is I NEVER know what the wife is gonna do... One minute she says she won't do this, won't do that... then the next thing I know WHAM!!!

She's the sail, I'm just the boat.

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Yeah. The light thing struck me as very weird too. Benjamin Franklin said it best. "All Cats are gray in the dark."

LOL

Damn right I want to look at that shit. No telling what you might find.

M.

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Folks turn the lights off? What?? Clothing still on?? WTF? weird?? Never thought to ask.

I'm usually easy with negotiation. Do you have condoms?...and you must use them to have intercourse with me. Beyond that...I wait to see what their behavior is. That's why I find playing solo is the best. I read the situation and adjust accordingly.

Folks will say a lot of things.. It's how they act when playing that I've found is the true test.

It's why experienced folks are the best. Very few land mines to negotiate. ;)

M.

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