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Federalsburg MD
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I've officially decided that I am going to work into the conversation with lifestylers I meet how they define bi , bi-curious , etc . At least until Webster puts it in the dictionary and then I will insist on "proper" usage ;)

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I think everybody has their reason for listing their level of sexual openness, for their own reasons. I dont think its up to me to question their honesty. I dont think its a matter of honesty. Its their comfort zone. For instance, to me, and this is just MY personal feeling about MY level of Bisexual. I am Bi-curious. To me if your Bi it means that you will play just M/M or F/F. M/M play does nothing for me. But in a party situation, playing with a male in group fun is a huge turn on for me and the wife. And she enjoys playing with women in the same situation. But neither of us wants to go out and have same sex.

This is just our take on this and we respect anybodys limits or lack there of. Its a personal preference.

Federalsburg MD
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WAY too many people be they males or females choose the moniker of "Bi curious" when indeed they have actually tried and enjoyed the Bi experience. Once someone has actually had an experience, they are no longer Bi curious. Curious means you have thought about doing it and wonder what it would be like. SO many people contact us with STRAIGHT being the designator or even Bi curious and then tell us they have done it many times and enjoy it. It is either a ruse to be able to play with us OR the truth is that they all say the same thing...."I dont put Bi in my profile because it hurts my chances of hooking up." We say if you cant be honest about what pleases you then we arent interested. We are hetroflexible. We both enjoy the Bi thing because it feels good. Neither of us wants to have a love relationship with a member of the same sex, but only sex with the same sex. We tried it, we liked it, and so now we are Bi....NOT Bi curious. Cmon, drop the pretense and be honest.

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In our case I started out bi-curious, my choice and I'm sure that's how everyone starts out! Until either choosing to continue the exploration or deciding it's not for them! I'm now bi and loving it!!! Don't be too quick to over generalize!!!

Fairfield PA
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We list as "curious" but we are both experienced. Playing Bi is our kink. Just not a lot of acceptance where we are.

Federalsburg MD
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Yes, I've found women who aren't as "bi" as their husband seems to want them to be....but...I've also found women who certainly have felt an attraction to women but have never acted on it. They are scared but curious at the same time. (Let's face it...with societal views, religion and family pressures it can be a lot to deal with in terms of deciding to figure out what you like which in the case of bisexuality is likely opposite to what you learned to be "right" growing up.)

Currently, I've been chatting with 2 couples who are in this situation and seem to meet at least one new one per month. If I feel the woman truly does want to discover what's right for her I have no problem sharing my experiences and answering any questions they may have. In all of these cases it's been the woman who told me they truly are bicurious and want to first become comfortable with the idea and then try it out to see if there are real emotions behind the curiosity.

So, "bicurious" does have it's place but it's not being used correctly in a lot of cases I think. I also find profiles that list the female as bi but she really isn't interested in being with other females sexually.

Sunnyvale CA
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Believe me a woman who is not interested and is just playing along is called out fast. Just by her body language one can tell she isnt into it.

If a husband "forces" a wife to play against her will , she is better off being single.

Augusta NJ
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My wife was bi-curious but not anymore, hell she goes down on a woman better then I do.

Tuscumbia AL
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YES... bi spurious!! I LOVE that!!

LMAO!

Panama City Beach FL
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