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TOPIC: complaint about bi-curious
Created by: newtobama
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In my humble opinion, when a a couple says that she is "bi-curious", I have found that generally just means the husband WISHES she were bi. You get together with them, and she is is so unsure of it that she doesnt even attempt anything..or worse yet you get the feeling that he never mentioned to her that she is supposedly "bi-curious", to me thats a bad experience. what do you think?
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There are true curious but we can relate to you stating the husband wishes. I'm (mrs) bi and love to help spark a fems curiousity. I do find some women will go through the motions to turn on the man but don't appear to enjoy it.

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I can usually tell from the get go if she is really curious or if it's just her male half pushing the envelope.. I've been bi all of life though... So what would I know?.. ;)

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I know I'm probably not supposed to post here but after looking at the previous posters profile I want to take a road trip to MI. Never thought I would say that esp this time a year lol. Oh and I guess I need to roll back the clock a year so I can be 45 again.

Sexy for sure. Now I'll be quiet and continue my lurking.

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I (Mrs.) wrote our profile and I put myself as bi-curious because I had never been with a woman so my thought was what if it doesn't play out the way I see it in my head? Our first experience it ended up just a FF with the guys touching and kissing but not really jumping in and I loved the whole experience. I didn't change my profile after that encounter though because it was our first experience and I wondered if maybe the excitement of it all made it so much fun. Then our 2nd encounter which did end up in a full swap I found I loved the girl play a lot and my profile changed. I changed it because I want anyone who looks at it to know that I really like the girl play, it wouldn't be a deal breaker but they should know. Recently we did run in to a bi-curious girl who seemed very open to anything I wanted to do to her but she really didn't do more than kiss me and touch me waist up. I thought I would be bothered by that before it happened but to be honest making her cum over and over was exciting and it wasn't until we were all done playing that it really occurred to me she never reciprocated. At that point I realized I didn't care, I actually would play with them again. I guess if I came across a couple where bi-curious really meant don't touch me my hubby just wants that in his head, that would bug me. Not because I have to have girl play but I wouldn't ever want to approach a girl and make her uncomfortable which would then make me uncomfortable. I think that would be a deal breaker for me. I would feel like they were not being honest and if they aren't honest than why would I want to be with them? But luckily we haven't ran in to that yet.

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all pillow princesses are welcome with us...just sayin

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"She loves to be treated, but does not enjoy giving."

She is a pillow princess. I'd be not so happy to find out that the woman I am playing with doesn't reciprocate. I guess I should make it a point to ask bi females what type of bi they are... ...Do you just kiss and rub titties? ...Do you just use fingers below the belt but nothing else? ...Do you just fool around for show and will you leave me in the dust for full swap after a minute or two? ...Do you play hardcore with other women?

My experiences with bi women in the lifestyle have been less than spectacular because most bi women don't play on my level, if they are bi at all.

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Well I have my wife listed as bi-curious, but I guess a more accurate term would be bi-selfish. She loves to be treated, but does not enjoy giving. However, the caveat to this is the "trusted friend", as in she has some "trusted friends" who are female that she enjoys giving pleasure to, so I list it as curious, sue me.

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I agree, I think a lot of husbands on the site list their wife as bi-curious be cause they think they'll get more hits on their profile. She may have made a comment at one time or other about being with a girl and they just take that and run with it. My wife had made comments over the years while we were having sex about having another girl there so I could have " a guys dream, a FFM 3-some", as time went by, she started hinting that she might also try being with a girl. We never tried acting on it until we entered the lifestyle a few years ago, we met a couple where the woman was bi and my wife had her first bi experience, it wasn't really a good one. She was very nervous and unsure of her sexuality which made things tough for her. I told her that look, if you want to try it again, I DON'T need to be there, YOU DON'T HAVE TO PUT ON A SHOW FOR ME, THIS IS FOR YOU !!, NOT ME !! and that seemed to relax her a bit. She eventually met a girl and she had a VERY POSITIVE experience with her, she was wound up for days over it. I still don't need to be there unless she and her girlfriend want me to be ( which hasn't happened yet and that's fine ) I just want her to be safe and have fun. I wanted her to embrace her bi side if she had one because I felt she would be a happier person for it, and when you love someone as much as I love her, their happiness means everything to you............

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We have had this experiance a few times, yes it's a bad experiance! It's to the point that if the profile don't say she's very bi, I don't even want to talk to them. I actually played with one female who didn't go very far if you know what I mean, and later the guy told me that he jumped her ass for it! I was very upset! Men need to understand that this isn't something you push on a women. I would like to see him be pushed into anal sex with another man and see how he liked it! Lol what's worse is that often talking to these girls don't help because they are out to please their guy and they will lie thinking they can do it, sorry but I have no desire to be with a woman if she isn't truly into it!

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We agree with Fancy. Girl play is not only a requirement with us, it's a focus. We can progress beyond that, if there's chemistry, but we're pretty content with just the girl play. But there's no chance of play whatsoever if the girls don't hit it off.

For that reason, we tend to shy away from couples that the female is described as Bi Curious or Bi Comfortable. It's been our experience that they turn out to be pillow princesses, at best. And while my wife loves the challenge and thrill of converting an occasional pillow princess, it's just not as much fun as fully reciprocating hot bi girl (like Fancy ;-) .

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