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TOPIC: complaint about bi-curious
Created by: newtobama
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In my humble opinion, when a a couple says that she is "bi-curious", I have found that generally just means the husband WISHES she were bi. You get together with them, and she is is so unsure of it that she doesnt even attempt anything..or worse yet you get the feeling that he never mentioned to her that she is supposedly "bi-curious", to me thats a bad experience.

what do you think?

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welcome to the forums, annablack!

personally, though it can be annoying/frustrating, i find the various labels helpful in eliminating folks before anyone invests too much time in contact, setting up a meeting, etc.

if someone is listed as socially bi, bi comfortable, or bi receptive, it's a pretty safe bet that's going to be a 68 so, thanks but no thanks. bi curious/inexperienced, eager to try-- that's a maybe.

you catch my drift, i am sure. but hey it goes both ways because there are some bi women i am totally not attracted to. and i am reallllllllly picky. so it's worth at least a meet and greet for coffee, drinks or whathaveya to see if there's chemistry. (of course after figuring out what kind of "bi" if any she is).

JMHO, YMMV.

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I f-ing hate the terms bi-curious, bi-receptive and my personal fave "open to receiving from "special" friends" OMG really would you say that to a guy? NO you wouldn't what make it ok to say to a Bi-sexual female? I have been bi-sexual all my life and have long ago accepted it. I feel like some women won't be just with a women or play too much with a women because it makes them Lesbian. I've been with a few too many women who claims to be very bi-curious and then when I make passes or actually get in bed they realize it's NOTHING like they fantasized about. So frustrating for me, a truly bi-sexual female. Look it's nothing like porn, nor is it all soft and fuzzy with candles. In my book either you are sexually attracted to females or you are not, you don't say hetero-curious or tell a guy you only do certain acts yet claim hetero-sexual, And be woman enough to say you are sexually attracted to other women.

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I have never been with a woman but I am curious. I will admit that I am not aggressive and hope the other woman will take the lead but I hope I will be able to satisfy a woman and she me. I do not want to see a partner dissatisfied.

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There are true curious but we can relate to you stating the husband wishes. I'm (mrs) bi and love to help spark a fems curiousity. I do find some women will go through the motions to turn on the man but don't appear to enjoy it.

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I can usually tell from the get go if she is really curious or if it's just her male half pushing the envelope.. I've been bi all of life though... So what would I know?.. ;)

Cleveland OH
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I know I'm probably not supposed to post here but after looking at the previous posters profile I want to take a road trip to MI. Never thought I would say that esp this time a year lol. Oh and I guess I need to roll back the clock a year so I can be 45 again.

Sexy for sure. Now I'll be quiet and continue my lurking.

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I (Mrs.) wrote our profile and I put myself as bi-curious because I had never been with a woman so my thought was what if it doesn't play out the way I see it in my head? Our first experience it ended up just a FF with the guys touching and kissing but not really jumping in and I loved the whole experience. I didn't change my profile after that encounter though because it was our first experience and I wondered if maybe the excitement of it all made it so much fun. Then our 2nd encounter which did end up in a full swap I found I loved the girl play a lot and my profile changed. I changed it because I want anyone who looks at it to know that I really like the girl play, it wouldn't be a deal breaker but they should know. Recently we did run in to a bi-curious girl who seemed very open to anything I wanted to do to her but she really didn't do more than kiss me and touch me waist up. I thought I would be bothered by that before it happened but to be honest making her cum over and over was exciting and it wasn't until we were all done playing that it really occurred to me she never reciprocated. At that point I realized I didn't care, I actually would play with them again. I guess if I came across a couple where bi-curious really meant don't touch me my hubby just wants that in his head, that would bug me. Not because I have to have girl play but I wouldn't ever want to approach a girl and make her uncomfortable which would then make me uncomfortable. I think that would be a deal breaker for me. I would feel like they were not being honest and if they aren't honest than why would I want to be with them? But luckily we haven't ran in to that yet.

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all pillow princesses are welcome with us...just sayin

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"She loves to be treated, but does not enjoy giving."

She is a pillow princess. I'd be not so happy to find out that the woman I am playing with doesn't reciprocate. I guess I should make it a point to ask bi females what type of bi they are... ...Do you just kiss and rub titties? ...Do you just use fingers below the belt but nothing else? ...Do you just fool around for show and will you leave me in the dust for full swap after a minute or two? ...Do you play hardcore with other women?

My experiences with bi women in the lifestyle have been less than spectacular because most bi women don't play on my level, if they are bi at all.

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Well I have my wife listed as bi-curious, but I guess a more accurate term would be bi-selfish. She loves to be treated, but does not enjoy giving. However, the caveat to this is the "trusted friend", as in she has some "trusted friends" who are female that she enjoys giving pleasure to, so I list it as curious, sue me.

Blythe GA
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