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TOPIC: complaint about bi-curious
Created by: newtobama
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In my humble opinion, when a a couple says that she is "bi-curious", I have found that generally just means the husband WISHES she were bi. You get together with them, and she is is so unsure of it that she doesnt even attempt anything..or worse yet you get the feeling that he never mentioned to her that she is supposedly "bi-curious", to me thats a bad experience.

what do you think?

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Yes were having fun, we love the swinging lifestyle. Thanks for asking. Thanks for your opinions on the topic. And yes she does like the sexy ladies and more fun for us lol. Its just that she is not ready and comfortable in saying the she is "bi" or whatever her type of sexuality its called these days lol. Yes she does not like "labels" as well. I told her "its cool and whenever you are ready to say it, just say it and its your business" Once again thanks for your opinions.

Keep those opinions coming people.

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Latin, I agree with funlyfriend about the labels, they are only useful as a descriptor and not as a definition. Having said that, another descriptor that might apply would be 'heteroflexible'.

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Latin,

fuck the labels! Are you two having fun in the life style? if so, let her be her.

Northville NY
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Latin, my opinion is she's not bi. pillow princess -- you have the correct term. bi-receptive is another i have recently heard.

bi means she likes more than to be given pleasure, she also enjoys giving---for the sole reason that she genuinely likes the smell, touch, and taste of the person she's giving to.

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My wife tells me that she is "straight" and sometimes she says she is "bi-curious" because she does not eat pussy. She is what you Bi-Ladies/Lesbians would call a "pillow princess". I tell her that either you are straight or your Bi. She prefers way more cock than pussy. But does not mind if a sexy woman comes to her.

So question to the Bi-Ladies. Is my wife in denial? To me she is Bi. I never pressure her to play with women. She does like the female body and to be touch and touch a woman. Its like me saying to a dude " hey man, jack me off only" I will be Bi if I did that. To me if you like to play with both sexes then your are Bi period.

Would like everyone's opinion on my wife "so called Bi-curiosity"

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welcome to the forums, annablack!

personally, though it can be annoying/frustrating, i find the various labels helpful in eliminating folks before anyone invests too much time in contact, setting up a meeting, etc.

if someone is listed as socially bi, bi comfortable, or bi receptive, it's a pretty safe bet that's going to be a 68 so, thanks but no thanks. bi curious/inexperienced, eager to try-- that's a maybe.

you catch my drift, i am sure. but hey it goes both ways because there are some bi women i am totally not attracted to. and i am reallllllllly picky. so it's worth at least a meet and greet for coffee, drinks or whathaveya to see if there's chemistry. (of course after figuring out what kind of "bi" if any she is).

JMHO, YMMV.

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I f-ing hate the terms bi-curious, bi-receptive and my personal fave "open to receiving from "special" friends" OMG really would you say that to a guy? NO you wouldn't what make it ok to say to a Bi-sexual female? I have been bi-sexual all my life and have long ago accepted it. I feel like some women won't be just with a women or play too much with a women because it makes them Lesbian. I've been with a few too many women who claims to be very bi-curious and then when I make passes or actually get in bed they realize it's NOTHING like they fantasized about. So frustrating for me, a truly bi-sexual female. Look it's nothing like porn, nor is it all soft and fuzzy with candles. In my book either you are sexually attracted to females or you are not, you don't say hetero-curious or tell a guy you only do certain acts yet claim hetero-sexual, And be woman enough to say you are sexually attracted to other women.

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I have never been with a woman but I am curious. I will admit that I am not aggressive and hope the other woman will take the lead but I hope I will be able to satisfy a woman and she me. I do not want to see a partner dissatisfied.

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There are true curious but we can relate to you stating the husband wishes. I'm (mrs) bi and love to help spark a fems curiousity. I do find some women will go through the motions to turn on the man but don't appear to enjoy it.

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I can usually tell from the get go if she is really curious or if it's just her male half pushing the envelope.. I've been bi all of life though... So what would I know?.. ;)

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