Why do Bi women not want Bi men: Swingers Discussion 798401011

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User Details are only visible to members.	I was "calling them out" as you say, not because they were posting in a BI forum. I "called them out" because they were listed as straight and in their posts said how they enjoy engagin in MSM. Therefor they should be listed as bi. Posting in a forum doesn't make a man Bi. Sucking a dick or taking it in the ass do.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Funny the CDC is wrong only when you disagree with them...lol Merry Christmas and may God Bless you ALL!
Destin FL			Username hidden (14562 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SO then you're saying it's ok for people to be dishonest in their profile in order to get in the sack with a girl or a couple? Gotcha now. The fact that you think i'm naieve is pretty silly. If you read what I wrote. I've always said "known bi males". Have we partied with a bi male unknowingly... probably. That doesn't mean we can't eliminate known ones from our play. Is that not something you can grasp? Again we always use protection. It's one more layer. But being selective also helps. Nothing is 100%. Further more. HIV is almost non-exsistant in the lesbian community. So your theory that a Bi girl can infect a bi girl while true in theory, stats prove remote.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Just out of curioustiy Bi. Do you have an actual point you'd like to make? Show me ONCE were I called someone a name or attacked them? I never did. I said playing with Bi men was outside of our comfort zone. I love how you people that disagree with a point like to say it's an attack. Facts are facts, if you are a BI male you are at a higher risk of HIV infection than a straight male. Go to the CDC and search (male on male sex) That's what cdc refers to it as. Also see how the majority of women become infected. It's from having heterosexual contact with a man that has had sex with men. Of course we use condoms. Of course there are still risks. They are acceptable to us with condom use. The additonal risk of adding a known bi male are outside of our comfort levels. All I asked for is honesty in profiles. If you're BI list at BI. That way people can either include or exclude you from their swinging activities. If being honest gets you excluded so be it. My wife also has other reason for not wanting bi men around, which are personal. I don't understand why bi men just can't be honest. Wanting girl action isn't an excuse for lying to someone.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Scotty and Mischief, excellent posts..to which we can add, she does not find it attractive or interesting.
Destin FL			Username hidden (14562 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Agreed Mischief... I played with a married guy for a long time back in the 1980s and then he told me he also had men as well one day. Nice he felt comfortable enough to tell me after nearly 6 years as he invited me to meet his current friend for a threesum. But that physical relationship ended in the next heartbeat. No way was I going to expose myself to any further risk of getting AIDS as it was starting to hit the gay community in Maine then. Even when he said he'd used condoms..no dice. Sorry, but I have to say I and my partner avoid bi men like the plague.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (181 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I played almost exclusively with bimen in the late 70's and very, very early 80's. I liked men who could dish it out as well as receive it. Those guys were a ton of fun. We could go out and look at all the choices together. The limits were not on the sex of the person, but if we found them as people attractive. Simply that ended when HIV hit. Because there was no test for years and the incubation time kept being extended.. I lived with the fact that I could easily have this thing. It was clear it was a virus from the beginning. The new coverage was scary as shit. Young, virile, very attractive men reduced to skeletons in a matter of months. It was like having a bad flu for a year and then you died. After having lived through that, I never want to visit that again. MSM category is rife with examples of unsafe sex. I worked in an HIV clinic in the mid-90s. The conclusion was obvious. Young men in their 20's were coming in infected. That meant that men with established infections were having unprotected sex with uninfected younger guys. Simply amazing, criminal, and incredibly disheartening. These were not isolated cases. It became very clear to me that MSM were willing to risk it all to have unsafe sex. That effectively eliminated them from sexual consideration in my book. I avidly avoid MSM and have for 20+ years. I also have witnessed other groups who have a high rate of infection. These men are giving HIV infections to women. These are injection drug users, urban males of color, and folks who sell sex of any kind. Therefore I avoid these groups as well. It's not personal. It's based on science and seeing it first hand. I would be extremely careful if I was a bimale. Actually, I would already be dead 25 years or so....Just like the gay men I knew back then. They all died. I personally knew 5 of them. sigh. Not one made it out of the 80s alive. I applaud and reinforce your decision to declare your status honestly. There are other bimales looking for safe partners, but swingers in general are very homophobic regarding MSM. I also find it very disheartening that so many men list as straight, but...they are not. Lying is a very good way to earn my extreme ire. Good luck. I'm sure you will find folks that will meet your needs. I have. Live to play another day. Mischief
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	for us, we do not entertain bi males for two reasons 1. I'm not bi. 2. go to the cdc website, search 'male on male hiv infection" and you will find according to the CDC that if you eliminate men that have had sex with men or men that use IDU you eliminate the chance of HIV infection by more than 80%. You will also see in the CDC report that a at least 40% of women that contracted HIV got it from heterosexual contact with a man that had MM sex. It is outside of our comfort zone to knowingly include men that have had sex with men in our play for reason we feel are obvious. That includes single bi men, and couples with bi men. There is a reason men that have sex with men can't donate blood. And if they aren't safe enough for the red cross they aren't safe enough for us. Live as you will, but don't be surprised that your playtime is reduced, but thanks for being honest in your profile.
Lake Worth FL			Username hidden (7209 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well I would assume that the idea of another woman gets them off, while the idea of 2 men together is perhaps not a turn on.
Monticello NY			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	1. To each their own. 2. Some bi-female swingers aren't really swingers at all, in the traditional sense, but bisexual women who are in a hetero relationship, and want to satisfy their same-sex urges. 3. Some people aren't really unattracted to couples or single males, but get enough of those offline that they don't need to attract them online, and seek the rarer single bi-female. 4. There is a group in this category who seek bi-females because of a power imbalance in the relationship-- essentially, man either wants to fuck other women or thinks it hot when his girl makes out with another woman, but doesn't want to allow his girl to hook up with another guy.
Ontario CA			Username hidden (14 post)

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