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Hey Tacos...All you said is exactly how I feel, only I could not do anything behind my mans back. He is also Bi and I do not want him indulging without me..I am very open to my good friends about our lifestyle and my new best girlfriend is very curious to explore it...only her man could never know..yes this is exciting, but him also being a friend, I feel it is betrayal..Should I get past this? Make her feel what no man could do? And yet I still search for the mature woman that knows when, where and how???

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I am a experienced 43 yr old bifem from Michigan, who honestly would prefer a bifemale who is in the same age range as I and dosen't have a hang up about one on one play. I love to play with moderate and full swap couples as well as a couple playing with me while my hubby watches, and then he decides if he would like to join in. I have been involved in this lifestyle on and off for 17 yrs, and have done alot of experimenting during this time. People do not have to be socially bi in a swinging situation. Being bisexual means living it every day, and not being afraid of your own sexuality. Alot of women I have talked with in this lifestyle tell me that they would love to be in an open caring relationship loving a woman as well as the man she is with, and not have to feel bad or worry about jealousy or the man leaving her. Trust is the key. I currently have a mature 40something ladyfriend whom I have known for a year and a half whos husband will let her play with me one on one when she would like to and all us together as well................. Life isn't like a porno, but it takes time to build a relationship, like it does in any straight one. Most newbies know what they want but have no idea what to do in reality, which is very frustrating because I usually leave the situation not satisfied, and frustrated. I have no time for younger women who won't return the favor so I always ask for a mature woman ages 35 and up, for mutual pleasures, whether the men are there or not. Thanks, J

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Jello...I do believe the reaction you received was a typical bitchy woman....Females are fucked up and hard to read...She obviously did not know what she wanted....And no matter what you say or how you act will not influence her,"me" mind.. On another note,,,, I see you are a red head. My first time with a girl...Heidi...The bitch was a red head ...I ate her good and then she tryed to do my man behide my back....lol that was 16 yrs ago....You red heads are a handful....and would like to taste that again

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Okay, I cannot say that I am a "mature" bi fem as I have only had a few experiences, but I had something strange happen to me at a club recently. Met a couple, we all talked, had a few drinks, and then questions were asked. Once she found out I was bi she kissed me really quick. Caught me a little off guard but it was ok. Then she got really aloof. Later on in the evening we started dancing together, I was playing with her hair and touching her back...just being sensual. We kissed a few more times and she told me she was really attracted to me. More dancing and then she backed away and stated that this was awkward. I did not push the issue...I am not that way. If she was uncomfortable then I cannot change that. I may have been lead astray by her initial forwardness but I am wondering if there was something that I did. Or maybe she was just new and nervous??

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My first time with a women happened because my man asked me and I made it happen...I was 18 then..now 14 years later, I have yet to meet a woman that can inititiate anything ,besides saying they are bi...every woman i have been with has been their first time...I too feel as though im beyound this now..can any woman show me , take me, ...I am not saying I havent enjoyed the flirting and watching their curiousiaty. The anticapation.....I want my turn...My man is always looking for woman that we both can have fun with...and seems to me they all are young ...he does not seem to understand..I have done my share of showing..how.....someone show me

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I find mature bifems the most fun. They know what they like and aren't afraid to ask for it or steer things in that direction. I usually stay away from newbies in general....... bi curious or otherwise. They are too much work for me and that becomes exhausting.

For those ladies that want to become seasoned bi fems..... all you have to do is attend a swing club and go in to the group room to play. Very seldom do I ever run in to a straight lady in the middle of a puppy pile. The most recent party we attended had over 15 couples in the group room (no clothing allowed in this group area) and my husband and I were so busy playing with the ladies that I didn't get much of a chance to play with but just a couple of the men. It was a feeding frenzy for bi female contact with the husband's joining in with them...... another words it seemed every female always had multiple people playing with her....both male and female. We find that very common in group play.

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There are all types of bi women out here 8-)

There is hope. Its ok to be excited and show excitement. i think the issue was that this women wasn't even allowing attention to be shown to the men also. I want to be able to spend some time with the guy too. After all I am bi not a lesbian. Pussy is a good appetizer but cock is the main coarse 8-)

If your into this for mutual pleasure and that including your partner as I am sure you are then your not going to be me me me..

Your going to give of that lets all of us explore this fun. Then you will do just fine.

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I am definitely a mature bi-fem in all aspects. I can not recall how many times I have felt smothered and stalked at swing events. It really bugs me and makes my skin crawl when that happens. For the first time in ages I recently brought someone over to the dark side and everything went perfect, except it was not reciprocated. I was a little bummed. Maybe next time she will be ready. Yes, it went well enough to play with her again soon. Hopefully with her hubby too next time. Very rare for me to play with someone who is not as experienced as I any more these days for just that reason.

I tend to run from those who are new at FF play. I don't wanna just do them and get nothing back in return, and I hate the awkwardness of an inexperienced bi-fem. They do not have to be as experienced as me, but for the love of Mikey please know what you are doing before contacting me. I am not into teaching. I've paid my dues. I want a female who already knows how to make me cum!

RaveN ( :~

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Oh, he would just hate that~!...lol.

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and yes Amy, that makes perfect sense.

~Cathy

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