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TOPIC: The Main Reason for the BI Thing
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Sorry Annie,

Guess we both got us a virgin. Mmmmmmmm, I love to share in the fun and pleasures.

Raven

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You nailed it.... thanks :)

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tellie

Welcum to the forums virgin poster.

I agree that bi-fems are sometimes asked to do things that should never be asked for in the first place. I think that some need to realize that the pleasures have to be for all, and reciprocated when it comes to full-filling fantasies.

I have also met some female stalkers and they can be much worse than men. I have had evenings upset several times by women who do not know how to take a "not interested" and move on. They think because you are a bi-fem, you should want to play with them. Nothing is more of a turn off than to have someone who holds no attraction to you, follow you around all night making gestures and trying to grab you all night.

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I am a bifemme and have been since I was twelve years old... although not practicing at the time ;) I just KNEW. I find it very upsetting when we meet a couple and discover that it's her first time with a female and I am EXPECTED to "show her the ropes".. or even worse.... it's her husbands fantasy and she isn't really into it at all. I don't want the responsibility of being her "first".. if she hates it I feel like a rapist. Also, I have come across several couples who USE me to make their fantasy come true... sounds fun but they usually pay so little attention to my sexual needs during the encounter that I feel like a sex toy... and not in a good way :) Finally, one last complaint and then I'm done ;) I have actually had to change my profile or put in my essays ,on this site and others, that I am a passive bi or a social bi female. The reason for this is because I have met more than one predator out there. If I am going to have sex with a woman I know about five minutes after I meet them. BUT some men and women think that if I am bi I am open to having sex with ANY woman... not true, I need there to be an attraction. These women push and won't take no for an answer... some of them are worse than single men. Thanks for lending an ear!

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And here I thought it couldn't get worse...I was wrong *rolls eyes*

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ok thank you hun

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I am a bif and I have met on a couple ocassions that it was the male wanting his fantasy and I later found out with the couple of occasions that the wife did not want it at all. It made me feel horrible.. The fact that you make it sound like its all men trust me its not lol. 98 percent of the women that are bi want to be bi. So if you care to ever post again choose your words carefully because people can take what you mean wrong

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Seeee...Pat very good straight couple...who doesn't throw stones at others :)

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Wow...Classy Couple...thats not a good name for you....Nope, just doesn't work...and I've never hid that I'm bi...nor am I nasty to close minded straight people

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That was great Erica....As for the poster...I'm Bi...not a fad, not a lesbian, not doing it for hubby, I LIKE girl play...but enjoy dick tooo much to give it up. So if you're so disgusted with bi-girls...block them from seeing you and get a life. Thetis

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