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We have recently purchased a strap-on and I enjoy it when my fiance' get her chance to fuck me. It is such a turn on for both of us. I have also used it on her and she likes the "real thing" better but it is a nice change of pace once in a while.

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oh baby. OH baby..Nice to see you on here. Still looking as hot as usual.

growlllll.

Mischief<----finds her age limit IS flexible.

Glen Burnie MD
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I've had many bisexual experiences, but didn't get brave enough to attempt oral sex for years after my first. It's kinda scary to not know what the heck you're doing, and I have to admit the cleanliness thing worried me. After one not-so-good experience I've learned to invite the girl to take a candle-lit bath with me...it's very erotic and a great way to show off the summer's eve feminine wash! lol As for not knowing what I'm doing, either the ladies are good liars or instinct just worked.

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Wyld, With the strap on for you sounds kinda kinky!

k of RK

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I have been on the giving and receiving end of a strap on. It is very erotic and also a bit strange. When receiving I did not acheive orgasm, I was wet but the feeling of a fake cock inside me left me wanting the real thing. As far as giving, it was a power trip and kudos to the guys, that is hard work trying to do what you do! I prefer oral with a lady, either giving or receiving or both. I love getting lost in a woman exploring for hours!

K of RK

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It is unfortunate that porn is where males learn about women's sexuality. Why? Because nothing shown in porn is reality based. Most females don't come like crazy from fucking. Nor do they like huge dicks. The list goes on and on.

Most FF action is based on what men want, not on reality. The quick genital grab and lick her to an orgasm in 30 seconds, has NO place in reality.

FFsex can be slower than honey in the artic. We simply take longer. We are in no hurry to go anywhere. It's so easy to pass 3 hours in bed with a lady. But males would be/have been bored to tears.

Realize I talking about women who are actually bi. Not bi-situational. Those women play on the male time table.

The strap-on fucking position is one of power, lust, control. I find that totally normal. Your wife may not be bi..She may just want to fuck something.. don't drop the soap...wink..

Mischief<--prefers the real to strapon..

Glen Burnie MD
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There is no bisexuality rules...no black and white on sexual preference..everyone has their own desires and curiosities. Most likely your wife is bi-curious with a bit of a fantasy of changing roles in bed, being the Giver instead of the Receiver as she would be in a straight situation.

Even in male/female interactions there are plenty of people who do not do oral. Does that make them less straight? Nope. It just means they have other preferences and levels of comfort.

If your wife decides to try out this new curiosity with a female playmate, just make sure the playmate understands up front the limits of what your wife is willing to do. It can be VERY frustrating for a bi-female to get into a room with another woman, having been told she is bi...and finding out DURING playtime that the other woman only wants to have oral performed on her...but has no intention on returning the act. Talk about the limits first...discuss the fantasy so everyone will be aware of what will happen.

Strap-on fantasies are not rare among women. I had one myself...and I have since had the opportunity to both give and receive the attentions of a strapon with another female. It can be very erotic to take the male role for once...being in charge and leading the pleasure of another woman. And, if a woman has had a bit of practice wearing a strapon, it can be great to receive, since a woman knows what it feels like to be on the receiving end..and normally has some idea of what feels good. No drawbacks there.

Most importantly...let her explore if she chooses to do so. Let it happen (or not happen) at her pace...and do not overly push her to be with another woman, no matter how much you may want to see it or hear about it. Let it be her decision, and it will pay off in the long run. :-D

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