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There is no bisexuality rules...no black and white on sexual preference..everyone has their own desires and curiosities. Most likely your wife is bi-curious with a bit of a fantasy of changing roles in bed, being the Giver instead of the Receiver as she would be in a straight situation.

Even in male/female interactions there are plenty of people who do not do oral. Does that make them less straight? Nope. It just means they have other preferences and levels of comfort.

If your wife decides to try out this new curiosity with a female playmate, just make sure the playmate understands up front the limits of what your wife is willing to do. It can be VERY frustrating for a bi-female to get into a room with another woman, having been told she is bi...and finding out DURING playtime that the other woman only wants to have oral performed on her...but has no intention on returning the act. Talk about the limits first...discuss the fantasy so everyone will be aware of what will happen.

Strap-on fantasies are not rare among women. I had one myself...and I have since had the opportunity to both give and receive the attentions of a strapon with another female. It can be very erotic to take the male role for once...being in charge and leading the pleasure of another woman. And, if a woman has had a bit of practice wearing a strapon, it can be great to receive, since a woman knows what it feels like to be on the receiving end..and normally has some idea of what feels good. No drawbacks there.

Most importantly...let her explore if she chooses to do so. Let it happen (or not happen) at her pace...and do not overly push her to be with another woman, no matter how much you may want to see it or hear about it. Let it be her decision, and it will pay off in the long run. :-D

Vixen

Harrisburg PA
 
 
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