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So sexy! :-*

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*mwuah*

Chesapeake VA
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Vabeachcouple33! Fancy meeting you here:-p

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Holy hell look who it is.

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Hmmmm... I'm bi, but not in the lifestyle for women, and just because I'm bi, it doesn't mean I want to focus on any woman I come across. I've always seen bi-play as a form of foreplay, but that is because I am a couples' swinger with a goal of getting the guy in the end:) It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore the ladies I'm comfy with, and heck... a couple of women I've encountered have totally owned me... no doubt:) But no, no bait and switch here.

You will encounter all kinds. Be clear in your profile what you are and are not looking for. Don't be afraid to voice your preference.

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We have found that with "newbie" couples (where playing with another woman is a novelty), women are often primarily interested in girl-girl play. When the novelty wears off, we've found that most bi women are primarily interested in men, and only very selectively play with women beyond light foreplay.

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If 2 couples "hook-up" and only the women play then correct me if I'm wrong but isn't that the very definition of soft-swap??

We became interested in Soft Swap as a way for me to be able to play with another woman, since most men are more than happy to watch their wives with another woman. We've never lead anyone on and are always up-front and honest about our wishes/desires and most are respectful of our "limitations (whether it's "No thank you" or "that's fine"). Sorry to hear about your experience but this definitely sounds like a "bait and switch" situation.

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All great posts and very helpful. I think adventuristicme & chickieandhisgirl "hit the target". Being up-front and honest communication is vital.

Windsor Canada
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Thanks C&HG for looking and opining.

After only several months we are still learning and fine tuning.

Steve

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I kind of look at this as a loaded question because I feel like I have been baited and switched but in the opposite way . I would say the majority of women on here claim to be at least bi-curious but many are just "bi for show" . Honesty is key and for us honestly ... it varies . Having spoken to many bi women and being one myself I can tell you there is a very broad range . I lean towards being much more attracted to women than men so if the other bi woman is much more attracted to men than women then I don't always get the attention from her that I want. And for those in the middle of the road it can really lean towards personal preference , usually a bi woman is more attracted to either the man or woman not equally attracted to both . And it depends on the couple . If she prefers muscular men/busty women then she will gravitate towards the type she is initially attracted to first and then the other . It's probably easier to be a straight couple in the lifestyle because of all of these variables lol . We have learned to sit back and enjoy whatever comes and try to expect nothing . If it turns out hubby is getting more attention then I enjoy watching him have a good time and take advantage of his "good mood" later and he does the same for me . And sometimes if you just enjoy the moment it turns out you do get drawn in unexpectedly as everything heats up . It looks like you have been misled and trust me so have we , but I don't think most couples flat out lie to get what they want.

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