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Depends on their profile, I would say. My wife is bi, but she only wants your wife. She'll flirt, bat her eyes, and even allow some light petting, but that is the extent she will allow the other guy to go.

I think our profile is pretty explicit. If others are not indicating they are only looking for g/g play, when thats' all they really want, then it is misleading.

Chesterfield VA
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IMO, there should never be a bait and switch as, for me personally, we have the conversation "before" I meet up with anyone and it may sound too orchestrated but I NEVER promise intercourse with the man. I am mostly there for the female. I can get dick all day and night but it is not the same with women. Being with a woman is so intimate so I am very selective about who I get down with. Just any pussy will not do. That's the difference with men -- in most cases, not all, so down shoot me down...LOL!

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So yummy.

Windermere FL
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So sexy! :-*

Richmond VA
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*mwuah*

Windermere FL
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Vabeachcouple33! Fancy meeting you here:-p

Richmond VA
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Holy hell look who it is.

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Hmmmm... I'm bi, but not in the lifestyle for women, and just because I'm bi, it doesn't mean I want to focus on any woman I come across. I've always seen bi-play as a form of foreplay, but that is because I am a couples' swinger with a goal of getting the guy in the end:) It doesn't mean I don't absolutely adore the ladies I'm comfy with, and heck... a couple of women I've encountered have totally owned me... no doubt:) But no, no bait and switch here.

You will encounter all kinds. Be clear in your profile what you are and are not looking for. Don't be afraid to voice your preference.

Richmond VA
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We have found that with "newbie" couples (where playing with another woman is a novelty), women are often primarily interested in girl-girl play. When the novelty wears off, we've found that most bi women are primarily interested in men, and only very selectively play with women beyond light foreplay.

Windermere FL
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If 2 couples "hook-up" and only the women play then correct me if I'm wrong but isn't that the very definition of soft-swap??

We became interested in Soft Swap as a way for me to be able to play with another woman, since most men are more than happy to watch their wives with another woman. We've never lead anyone on and are always up-front and honest about our wishes/desires and most are respectful of our "limitations (whether it's "No thank you" or "that's fine"). Sorry to hear about your experience but this definitely sounds like a "bait and switch" situation.

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