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We are the same and also find it a bit difficult with full swap couples. If you ever find that "magical word"; please pass it on. Hugs Sofia & Raul

Miami FL
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Your fantasy sounds perfectly reasonable to us. Your profile plainly states what you are looking for, so, people should not have a problem when you tell them straight up..you're not full swapping. If they have a problem with that, sounds like you need to move away from them anyway. As far as meeting in public settings. ie. bars, parties etc. We think you should just be up front right off the bat and tell them what your boundries are. If folks can't take it at that, then be done with them.

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First a little background. My wife and I have been together for many years. She's smoking hot, and I'm totally and completly into her. Whether she's dancing, or playing pool or whatever, I always have trouble taking my eyes off her.

She's also totally bi. We both enjoy checking out other hot girls. I am absolutely ok with her exploring her Bi-ness, as long as I get to watch. :-) I know that many guys say this, and what they really want is a fmf threesome, but that's not us. I'm not interested in doing anything beyond flirting and maybe light petting with any other girl.... ever. Watching my wife have fun with another girl, and then my wife having fun with me is really the extent of my fantasy.

We are also not full, or even moderate swap. We're ok with a little flirting and light petting, but we really just want her to meet other girls that she likes.

The problem is that she really attracts alot of attention from full swap couples. I'm sure all hot girls are used to this attention problem, but it was frustrating that we were unable to disengage from aggressive lifestyle couples that want different (more) things than we do.

So the question is, are we barking up the wrong tree here? Is there some secret password that we can use to quickly disengage ourselves from couples that are looking to swap? Should she be wearing a rainbow bracelet or something to let people know her preferences outside the marriage? We thought that aybe a gay bar would be a more appropriate place to meet like minded people, but we didn't want to limit her to only single girls, or FF couples.

We'd love to hear your thoughts.

Chesterfield VA
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