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We will say that everyone tells fibs or strech the truth some when it comes to sex. When it comes to sex everyone lies, if you look at all studies and interives no one is gay, no one swings,ect,ect,ect, when we all know that it is BS.

We prefeer mw. but in the heatof sex he has sucked cock and she has lick pussy but like to end up with mw. So should be be listed as bi or as straight that get carried away in the thros of sex. Maybe thats why we haven't be active lately because of the way we are listed..

But to be honest what cock cares whos mouth is sucking it or whos tounge is lickimg their pussy, just lean back and enjoy. If people would be honest with themselves all of us have at lest a little bi in us.

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It is sad but true.

there are many in this lifestyle that consider themselves open minded but are not even close to overcoming our societies prejudices.

it has always seemed weird to me that people lie about Theirpreferences when seeking out playmates.

better to be honest up front for everyone's pleasure

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ofcourseiwill, you are another who seems to confuse sexual actions with sexual orintation. And by the way, not all men lie. Now sitting around the fire, topic is fastest car; bigest buck; or most fish, I may take liberties with the facts. but no one would lie

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Everyone needs to understand ALL MEN LIE! It our hobby. We sit around drinking beer and swapping lies. It's fun.

But, that's not the topic.I label my self Bi, but some days I'm straight, just not in the mood to play with a guy, or I don't like the guy. There have been times when I loved the woman, but the Bi man she was with, no way. Now am I lying about being Bi, because I'm fussy about what I put in my mouth, or what dark cavern I might insert myself?

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I would agree. I list bi to weed out the homophobes, they tend to bebigoted judgemental in other areas as well. They also become downright hateful when a guy like myself, that in their view is bi/gay, lists as straight. A lot of bi/gay guys have told me in their view I am straight, but none have ever done so in a negative way. I've never met a gay guy that would call another gay guy a liar for claiming to be gay when he eats pussy once in a while. Life's too short to hate, we want no parts of it.

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M yes, in my most humble opinion you are straight. You are a sensual man, a sexual guy you like to give pleasure and naturaly recive it also. You make peoplle around you relax and have fun. You do not have silly problems about being next to another mans naked body You are very friendly but you are not bi sexual according to the conventional definition of bi sexual.

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Bill, according to that, I am straight, I'm not attracted to men, it's simply an act of sharing pleasure. But the vast majority feels that if you suck one dick, you are bi. Kinda silly, because if that was true, eating a pussy would make you straight again.<br /> Mt belief is that my orientation is either"Yes", "sexual" or "very", because the bottom line fact is yes, I am very sexualy oriented.

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Asianlust , there are entries on the left collun in the "sex stories" that are shorter than your post. Just kidding. I do agree with some of it not all nessicary. I have been bi all my life it seems with my first experience being a preteen before even having pubic hair. During my years, I have been atracted to a few males. Most will never know about it. I have also been atracted to many females. Again, most will never know. I bleave the labol "bi" fits me because I am atracted to BOTH sexes. I realy don't see any in between. People who do certain sexual acts because they feel good are not nessicarly joining either sexual orientation. In other words, a man who sucks a dick but has no desire for the other guy is not bi if defined by his actions alone. He is simply doing something that gives him pleasure.

You list as bi courious, what part of bi are you still courious about? ask me, I have probably done it or know about it from someone else. I think all these labols people are dreaming up are rediculous Bi courious; bi nutral; and such. Bi friendly is about the only one that makes sence.

It seems that some people want to be defined by the sexual acts they preform (or wont preform) and not by who they really are. Mabe that laboe white washs their sexuality for them so they have some sort of deniability?

A side note, I know spell check is not working today since I am pritty sure I bombd a couple words and it is not finding them.

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Asianlust, welell stated and thoughtful. I mostly agree with you, and, of course, you are on the other coast of the country from me...

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Let's be honest. The society we live in generally accepts only monogamous sexual relationships, which allows only for homosexual or heterosexual possibilities. Nothing more. Flip on any TV or watch any movie, and you see only "gay" or "straight" couples. You don't see three men or three women in bed together because that's not monogamous. So, two men and one woman, two women and one man, two men and two women, or more just doesn't compute for most people. It's so ingrained in our society, polygamy is a crime. That's why even the original poster on this thread admits they don't bring playmates home. That's also why even the LGBT movement stays away from swinging as a cause. That's why 99.999% of folks on this site would never be so foolish as to inform coworkers, family, or non-swinging friends they are swingers. The prejudice and fear which pervade our society don't instantly evaporate from a person on account of the notion to have multiple sex partners, or creating a public profile. Prejudice and fear drive folks every day to actively seek out anyone who is assumed to fornicate; especially when not in a male-female monogamous relationship; and take every measure to destroy that person in every way, including public humiliation, incarceration, and death. Swapping partners is much more feared than monogamous homosexuality.

Most straight or straight male/bi female swinging couples will not knowingly play with a couple if they know the male is even bi-comfortable because most straight men fear any male contact will mean they are permanently stigmatized as "gay". It is a real and honest fear. It's as real and honest as the fear one experiences when standing next to a floor-to-ceiling window on the 30th floor they don't experience on the 2rd floor, even though the risk of death is the same. This fear is especially promoted among males from birth, but not among females. Thus, more couples in the lifestyle encourage female-female play than keeping the women straight, but steer clear of any possibility of male-male play.Pointing fingers at others because of the orientation labels they choose only perpetuates the fear and hatred all swingers dread.

The reality is you never know how a person will behave during a sexual encounter until you're having a sexual encounter with that person. Even so, each encounter is different. Sometimes, someone (male or female) will be in a bi mood, homo mood, or hetero mood, and that mood may change during the course of an encounter. The chemistry between any two people will greatly affect the sexual energy between them. Finger pointing or having an agenda, like "he has to suck my dick before fucking my wife", spoils the mood, and has the effect of encouraging someone to retreat toward what is generally accepted in society. It's the same as a man expecting a woman he just met to have sex with him on the third date, come hell or high water.

If bisexual people want to eventually be accepted in society the way homosexual people have, they need to start accepting others for their sexual orientations, and allow themselves to cast aside all need for sexual orientation labels. We're all sexual. Putting a label on one's sexuality only limits possibilities. It doesn't allow for the limiltless possibilities we all have within.

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