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Toomuch, the problem with being "honest" is guys like me. I am oral only, I do not kiss guys, I am not attracted to guys romanticly or sexually, I would not date or be in a romantic relationship with a guy, but during group play I do enjoy sharing pleasure with everyone in the group. Most straights say any MM contact makes you bi. Most true bi guys say my limits mean I'm not bi. And there's the problem, I am being dishonest regardless of how I list. Sexual orientation is like all things human, there is no absolute black & white, only various shades of gray. Unfortunately, SLS listing options do not reflect that, and until they do, this argument will continue. I wrestled with this for quite some time, and decided to list as bi, mainly because we don't like bigots of any kind, and listing bi weeds out 99% of them.

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LOL Right.

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bill I just saw you are listed as bi. Whats this about anyway lol

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I'm not bashing. My personal thoughts on it is if it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone than have at it.

My point is that you seem to be working hard to avoid a label. Just relax and don't worry about it because honestly the people who matter won't care.

There are some guys that are so hung up about their manhood its totally irrational. I've had the opportunity in life to really test my limits. If I decided I wanted to suck a cock I would do it, I've done vaginal DP and several women have had my cock along with another crammed in their mouth, some might call that bi too because I enjoyed it. The way I see If someone wants to ever test my manhood we can just go to my gym, climb in the ring for 5 minutes and sort it out that way.

Honestly when it boils down to it, with the exception of how it would affect me financially, I don't give a flying fuck what people think. Especially the hung up prudes, I take special pleasure shocking them.

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Toomuch, I think you are wrong. In my opinion, you are interchanging a sexual preference with a physical act. There have been reams of information published by credible people on this subject if you are really interested. If you are just slumming in the bi forums to do a little bashing then don't bother just follow the hoard.

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I'm sorry. Maybe I should say JUST putting a cock in your mouth dose not in its self make you a bisexual???

BTW, confused is a common state of mind at my house.

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Billnsuzie: I'm pretty sure if you are a guy and you suck dick it does indeed make you bi by definition. Nothing wrong with that, just sayin....

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i am so confused

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Putting a cock in your mouth dose NOT make you a bisexual in spite of what the posse and forum police say about it.

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Beyond curious, SLS offers only two categories of orientation, straight & bi. SLS guidlines say to pick the one that best describes you. If you consider yourself to be more straight than bi, you are perfectly within honesty to list as straight.

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