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Created by: sabrinasslave1 Original Starting post for this thread:
I know there is a thread close to this but we wanted to separate this part. I am sure we are in the minority here, but we will not meet with any male who says they are bi in emails, yet when we check their profile it says they are straight. The excuse is always that "it cuts down on their action." Well, I have to ask if they are lying about their orientation, what else are they lying about? (Insert the argument here about "everyone lies about something" - well, we don't lie on our profile). I also have to wonder why they would play with people who don't respect them, but hey that is their choice. If couples collectively began rejecting this behavior (this means stop meeting with them) we might have a chance at correcting it. There are rules/etiquette for the lifestyle and this should be part of it. The homophobia will not go away if we condone this behavior. This is not about orientation. It is about honesty in dealing with potential playmates. We know we will never get everyone to do this, but just a thought for those of us who aren't bedpost notchers.

Created by: sabrinasslave1
Original Starting post for this thread:

I know there is a thread close to this but we wanted to separate this part.

I am sure we are in the minority here, but we will not meet with any male who says they are bi in emails, yet when we check their profile it says they are straight.

The excuse is always that "it cuts down on their action."  Well, I have to ask if they are lying about their orientation, what else are they lying about?  (Insert the argument here about "everyone lies about something" - well, we don't lie on our profile).

I also have to wonder why they would play with people who don't respect them, but hey that is their choice.

If couples collectively began rejecting this behavior (this means stop meeting with them) we might have a chance at correcting it.  There are rules/etiquette for the lifestyle and this should be part of it.  The homophobia will not go away if we condone this behavior.

This is not about orientation.  It is about honesty in dealing with potential playmates.

We know we will never get everyone to do this, but just a thought for those of us who aren't bedpost notchers.

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User Details are only visible to members.	Same thing can be said about a man who list himself as straight but writes a couple and says he's bi, then shows up and all of a sudden he straight again. Are as some of the coupes who have written us telling us how kinky they are but when we pull out the toys they are like hell no.
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2193 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Understand what you are saying but I need to list straight for various reasons. I am now playing with a bi female and find it much worse when guys claim they are bi just so they can get laid!! In my opinion this is much worse than listing as straight and really being bi. She sets the fun up and when they show up they no longer suck cock or anything? Of course they really want to fuck her. These guys are total losers!
Ocean Pines MD			Username hidden (10 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I live in a small town and nobody knows that I have suck cock, and if they did know I would have to leave town. Since I say I am bi in my profile I don't have pics and that limits my action. I don't like the bi label anyway. I love women and I don't consider myself bi. When I am with a couple and she likes to watch the guys suck and j/o then I will gladly and eagerly do what she wants. I just believe you should do anything to pleasure the people you are with.
Cambria CA			Username hidden (13 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have gotten quite a few of those,funny thing is when you talk to the wife she has no idea her hubby is BI. I guess he is hoping that in the heat of the moment she wont notice him sucking my dick or she will keep her mouth shut like a good little girl:)
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (2193 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The problem is everyone has their own definition of bi ,and everyone wants everyone else to adopt their definition. We have every definition from those who say if you ever even touched a cock you are a fag for life, to those who say in order to be "truely bi" you must give & recieve anal with men just as freely as you would fuck a woman. SLS gives only two options, bi & straight, and leaves us to select the one that "best describes" us. If a guy who gives head occasionally, plays straight 99% of the time, and considers himself 99% straight, lists as straight, who are we to judge him a liar because his definition of bi does not match ours? Truth is, I get called a liar alot more now that I list as bi, because I won't do anal, than I did when I listed as straight and occasionally sucked a dick.
Osterburg PA			Username hidden (295 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If we email a "straight" guy, we just send a generic, "Hi, we find you attractive. Check out our profile and if you happen to be into how we like to play, feel free to write us back" A few will write back, "Sorry but I really am straight" MOST...LOL... MOST Write back all for it. Profile tags are useless
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Lots of folks feel that way, and if it works for them, that's fine. Having said that, I think guys have their own reasons for listing as they do, and if it works for them, that is fine too. As long as they keep me in the loop about what is truly going on with them, I have no problem with how they list on their profile. It does make it harder to find them though.
Knightdale NC			Username hidden (251 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We are fed up with both people claiming straight in profile and being bi as well as those saying curious that know damn well they are in for the bi thing. Men and women just put who you are in your profile. It will save thousands of minutes of wasted time as well as potentially energy as people wont make trips for nothing. Now if you truely bi, let us know.
Milwaukee WI			Username hidden (28 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I'm sure sabrinasslave has never told a fib. Especially to sabrina. Sabrina of course would never think of uttering an untruth to her slave.
Palm Harbor FL			Username hidden (16 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	--"bi males and honesty" All Bi Males lie ! Did I just lie ?
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2061 post)

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