bi males and honesty: Swingers Discussion 2043901047

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User Details are only visible to members.	The other threads have almost as many tangents as they do messages- the discussion becoming about the definition of bi vs. gay, and the use birth control and any number of other diversions... We are saying if the behavior is bothersome (also made clear in several posts in other threads) that people have an alternative. The question is whether people will actually do it.
Waterloo IA			Username hidden (73 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	All your new points are well argued in the old thread(s).
Osterburg PA			Username hidden (295 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I should add that this is not just about single males. Couples with bi males should be listed that way too. Otherwise you are perpetuating the myths that surround bi males.
Waterloo IA			Username hidden (73 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I know there is a thread close to this but we wanted to separate this part. I am sure we are in the minority here, but we will not meet with any male who says they are bi in emails, yet when we check their profile it says they are straight. The excuse is always that "it cuts down on their action." Well, I have to ask if they are lying about their orientation, what else are they lying about? (Insert the argument here about "everyone lies about something" - well, we don't lie on our profile). I also have to wonder why they would play with people who don't respect them, but hey that is their choice. If couples collectively began rejecting this behavior (this means stop meeting with them) we might have a chance at correcting it. There are rules/etiquette for the lifestyle and this should be part of it. The homophobia will not go away if we condone this behavior. This is not about orientation. It is about honesty in dealing with potential playmates. We know we will never get everyone to do this, but just a thought for those of us who aren't bedpost notchers.
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