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I have to admit that I am one of those people that say no bi men in profile . I have friends from all different walks of life & by no means want to offend anyone . This is a hang up of mine that I am trying to get over , It is a double standard in society that most accept bi females but not males . I know that my mind instantly thinks of 2 guys going @ it like in a porno . So I can understand why someone may not say they are in a profile . Lately I have begun to understand that this is all just hot enjoyable fun , so why not do whatever you like . Maybe we need to stop labeling people , this puts ideas in our mind that are not true and a person is just a person regardless of what sexual activities they enjoy . I am drawn to that fun caring respectful person and would rather get to know them without any labels . Sex is fun so lets all stop worrying about it and just have a great time !

Woodbury NJ
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Every couple from SLS that I have met for bi play listed the male as straight. I don't get hung up on this anymore. I find it amusing that couples who post NO BI MALES in there profile also have posted certs on the profiles of couples I've played with.

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We have a 'Couples with BiMales in SF Bay Area' and we use this group to setup Bi Parties for couples and when you look at the profiles you clearly see a that over half of the couples show the Male is "Straight" on the profile.

We think it's fine and offer no moral judgement and look at it as they may not be bi but maybe interested in trying it once or twice or more....totally cook with us and the same goes with single males, we just make sure the single males are "bifriendly" meaning they don't have to reciprocate but they do have to let my bi slut boy suck them or lick them while they fuck me

Livermore CA
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Hubby and I see it as.a lot of people don't want bi-oral males. What is the difference if a woman sucks it or a man? But we prefer to still be honest and say he is bi-oral. Maybe we don't get as many replies, but the ones we get we know that they have an interest in us.

I think that it is a shame that people won't accept us in a Lifestyle site.

Manchester NH
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Agreed. Being bi should be universally accepted in the LS. But there are still many who can't get the old Puritan concepts out of their heads. In my mind it's just better to be up front with your desires.

Downey CA
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Thanks, we feel the same bout yous.

Bedford PA
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bicple, if you really feel that way, edit your profile and list as straight. I am sure some (maybe all) your friends will understand It should make no difference to most. You are listed as friends in our book. Not bi not straight just as friends. that wont change

Greencastle PA
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Bi. I do know it is not that simple. We have to fly under the radar, but in the lifestyle we are open

Northville NY
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I wish it was that simple Fun.

Bedford PA
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Be true to yourself. Fuck the haters and bigots

Northville NY
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