Where are all the both bi couples: Swingers Discussion 645231081

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User Details are only visible to members.	Good point...we have gotten that response too...even though "he" isn't listed as bi we are real and he IS bi...that hidden agenda applies to all areas of taste in the lifestyle!!!
Fairfield PA			Username hidden (338 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Cinandchuck Thats exactly it. We literally get messages that say "What do I gotta do wit the dude to fuck her?" Or they offer that I (male) can watch.....Woo hoo Or they will "allow me to suck them" but they wont do it back. The thing is we want ONE guy who is REALLY Bi. We like to play together as a couple but we also want to be able to call on that guy for one on one play with either of us. I travel a lot for work, so my wife would like a "boytoy" to play with while Im out of town. Sometimes I just want some quick play, or feel like messing around with a guy and dont wanna go through the whole preparation for a 3 some thing. Or my wife is out of service for the week and doesnt want to do anything. So thats why we make that clear. Its funny how a guy will message us and if only she is available, he's on his way over. But the same guy, if only Im available, suddenly "Someones car broke down" or "He got called into work" or something else. As a bi guy.....I am just as happy playing with a guy one on one, as a girl. We are looking for the same. Not some guy who will tolerate a little guy play to get pussy.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wow, Joey and Bunnehs. Both of you hit the nail on the head with your post. We could have written both of them. Cin and I very often get contacted by the "Str8" male of the couple wanting to try bi male play. BUT they don't want the other half to know. Our question to them right away is "Did you read our profile?" And as for the single guys, most but not all want to just bi pass the guy to get to the woman for any play. We have found some great single bi guys. but it is like hitting the lottery, a million to one shot. We both list as bi because that is what we are looking for. As for str8 sex, we have a wonderful time "together". We got into the lifestyle because we both had an interest in bi play.
Easton MD			Username hidden (31 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	With experience on this site and others this is a touchy subject for everyone involved. We prefer to list our true orientation because we rather attract other bi couples. We like playing with straight or mixed couples too but our first preference is bi couples. The whole "scaring away straight couples" thing is silly. It happens but its silly. We get messages everyday from bi couples where the male is listed as straight. We could easily do that with our profile and then the "scared" couples wouldnt be scared anymore...Yet theyre still playing with a bi guy. Dam near every single man in our area has messaged us and 99% are listed as straight yet they claim to be bi. This one is touchy for us. We have 0 interest in a straight single guy and have had experience in the past where a guy claims to be bi and when we get to it we find out he is really really straight. We have tossed people out for this. So most of the time we just delete the messages from single guys who list as straight. We used to have a "rule" where a single guy would meet us as a couple, but the first time playing it would be just the two guys. We found that would weed out almost every guy who messaged us with the exception of a couple. So it worked pretty good. Orientation online is as simple as a mouse click. You dont like bi guys? Our guy can be "straight" in 2 seconds. Lighten up people.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Very nicely put Bunnehs!
Enosburg Falls VT			Username hidden (969 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My wife and I actually got into swinging after opening up to each other about our bi-sexuality. That was the opener to the whole thing, we had to get to the point where A) we were honest with ourselves and B) not afraid of opening up to each other. We've never been closer, we'd never go "back". We've been hit with str8guy/bi-girl folks who've expressed interest in bi-guy sex. In most cases, the guy is a top who likes/can do oral on a guy. I'm just fine with this since that suits me perfectly, but yeah, it'd be a lot more fun if the swinger crowd was as open to bi-guys as to bi-girls. I mean, haven't most couples got into swinging by opening up, being honest and trusting in the first place? This is really the one thing I don't "get" about the swinger crowd .. really open minded homophobes? ... Um, OK ...
Denver CO			Username hidden (9 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It never ceases to amaze me the judgements in these posts. While I list myself as bi, I fully understand why someone would choose not to. First bi is a very wide term. Some think (as mentioned before) that bi means you go out and meet many males to suck and fuck. Those males who have sucked a cock a couple times under special circumstances may not perceive themselves as bi since their main interest is straight sex. Many straight men who are not afraid to taste a cock do not think of themselves as bi. Myself, I am basically straight, but sucking cock together with my lovely wife is a special intimate pleasure I wouldn't miss for the world. I list as bi to eliminate the homophobes who would lose their hard-ons and stop the action in a foursome if the two males actually had cock contact.
Enosburg Falls VT			Username hidden (969 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Very interesting reading. Great posts. I personally will not talk or meet(after the initial emails/im) with anyone that has them as str8 on thier profile and then in conversations I find out they are actually bi. I do not want to spend time with someone that isnt true to themselves or the site full of people they are trying to hook up with. If you cant be honest with yourself, you wont be with me.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1865 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Swm What you do is your choice all we are trying to say is if you list as straight and you are bi then you are asking for trouble. People will eventually rat you out it is just a matter of time. We have seen this happen and that is damn near the kiss of death in this lifestyle. Honesty is the best policy I the male 1/2 of this cpl decided if people can not accept me for who I am then it is their problem. We have been cast aside from some of the so called "straight" groups in our area and we know damn full and well some who are attending those parties are bi males in hiding would we ever say anything NO but we damn sure laugh knowing that these homophobes are playing with a guy who was just seen sucking on a cock at one of the bi parties we attend. If you are listing him as straight so you can find straight cpls more power to you just hope it does not come back to bite you in the ass later down the road. Trurh is we have found more cpls AFTER we listed me as Bi as people know we have nothing to hide. Does our profile say every little detail of what we expect in bi male play? NO we reserve that to face to face meetings with people we know what to discuss that. It did take awhile after I listed myself as bi to find some bi friendly non judgemental cpls but they are out there.
Navarre FL			Username hidden (1416 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Limiting? Exactly. It limits our interactions to the people best suited for us. And more than a dozen certs shows that it doesn't limit meetings and in fact provides a better opportunity for all. We have both str and bi folks in those certs. And you will not find any certs on our profile that say "no bi/bi-curious males" in their profiles. Kevin & Peggy
Guerneville CA			Username hidden (76 post)

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