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TOPIC: What did your wife say when you first told her that you were bisexual

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With us it happened kind of slowly after 20 years of being married. I went on a weekend canoe camping trip with a good friend. When we go into the tent (drunk) on Sat night he asked me if I played with dick. I told him that I had not but didn't mind the idea. We had some fun and passed out. When I got home I finally told her what had happened and she got really hot and fucked my eyes out. Later we went on a weekend backpacking trip with him. There was a lot of good fucking and sucking and we found out that she really liked to share a dick with me. The next time was at a bike rally where we met an old friend and went back to his room. It wasn’t long until we were all naked and having fun most of the night. The next morning I went to his room and gave him a great sucking. Then we both went in with my wife and screwed and sucked and screwed and sucked for a long time. We met him again at some bike races and he came to our room for a night of fun. It was after that I realized that I was in fact BI. I told her and she said no but I explained that I really liked the fun we had and could not wait for the next time. That made me BI. She agreed that it really turned her on to suck dick with me and to help someone suck mine. So now she is totally good with me being BI. We have had several more fun times with our bike friend but we live 500 miles apart so not easy to get together. Hard to find fun close BI but we are trying.

Created by: sc24fun
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With us it happened kind of slowly after 20 years of being married.

I went on a weekend canoe camping trip with a good friend.  When we go into the tent (drunk) on Sat night he asked me if I played with dick.  I told him that I had not but didn't mind the idea.  We had some fun and passed out.  

When I got home I finally told her what had happened and she got really hot and fucked my eyes out.

Later we went on a weekend backpacking trip with him.  There was a lot of good fucking and sucking and we found out that she really liked to share a dick with me.

The next time was at a bike rally where we met an old friend and went back to his room.  It wasn’t long until we were all naked and having fun most of the night.  The next morning I went to his room and gave him a great sucking.  Then we both went in with my wife and screwed and sucked and screwed and sucked for a long time.

We met him again at some bike races and he came to our room for a night of fun.

It was after that I realized that I was in fact BI.  I told her and she said no but I explained that I really liked the fun we had and could not wait for the next time.  That made me BI.  She agreed that it really turned her on to suck dick with me and to help someone suck mine.  So now she is totally good with me being BI.

We have had several more fun times with our bike friend but we live 500 miles apart so not easy to get together.  

Hard to find fun close BI but we are trying.

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User Details are only visible to members.	She is TOTALLY all for it! Loves the idea of watching me suck, fuck, another guy. Hell, she joins in at times. It REALLY turns her on to see me with another guy or have me tell her about me & another guy hook up! She evens finds 'hook-ups' for me at times...lol!. She has really made it easy for me to come out of my 'comfort zone'.
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User Details are only visible to members.	We were very young and dating when I talked into a threesome with a friend of mine who i had played with before. She watched us suck each other and was so turned on she fucked both of us really hard. It has been over 28 years since then and she still points out guys she would like to see me with.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Mine wasn't down with it at all...On a couple of drunken nights, I got her to use a vibe on me & then I bought a strap on for her to use...She did it but wasn't into it at all so it got wierd. I played with a bicouple a few years later & thought it was gonna be all about her, and it was for a while...but then she pulled me to his cock & we shared sucking it & kissing each other...she was getting really hot by it & I was really surprised how much I was enjoying it. We had lots of hot fun the rest of the night. Now, I am looking for a fun bicouple to explore with some more but being a single man...we're kinda like the pariahs of the lifestyle.
Sarasota FL			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It was a turn on for her and continues to be. She gets even wetter when bi play is involved. We also love to talk about bi play even when it is just the two of us having sex. I sure do love my wife! :)
Pordenone Friuli-venezia Giulia Italy			Username hidden (19 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My wife had a hard time with it. After almost 20 years together, I came around to fantasizing about men, and she couldn't figure out why. She is supportive though, and set up our first 3-some so I could experience it. It's a shame the isn't more interested in the play time, but at least she is open minded. She's supportive in me finding what's right for me, although i'd prefer her to be involved I wont push it. So ladies, be supportive! And for the guys with a supportive partner AND one that is excited to open play, you are doubly lucky!
Reisterstown MD			Username hidden (178 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I didn't tell her, she told me. Her exact words were "OK, now it's your turn".
Osterburg PA			Username hidden (303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I was straight and she "bent" me. Apparently it was her idea all along. First, I was trying to get her to try anal and she said, "If it feels so good, how about me using it on you?" What could I say but, "Yes, of course, Honey." I did, she did, I found I enjoyed it, and she got a power trip from it. Several months later we were in a very hot MFM, and the she was trying to get the guy hard for round two. She asked me to help her suck his cock, and guided it into my mouth. She sucked his balls as I sucked his cock, and found that I enjoyed it too. Yes, he got hard very quick and we had two more rounds. Then, we were in another hot MFM with our first BBC. After he and I gave her an orgasm from foreplay and oral, she asked us if we could suck each other's cocks. We got 69 and soon were having fun. It turned her on so much she grabbed his cock from my mouth and guided it over to her pussy for her first time having a BBC in her. After that we changed our profiles to show that I was bi too.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Our experience started during a threesome with a friend. But hey, I only asked him to lick her pussy while I was in her and I had no idea that it would turn into an all night bi party. She was honestly a little surprised at first but that's how we play now and we love it. Good times.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Sc24fun, I definitely agree with hump; you are one lucky man.
Knightdale NC			Username hidden (264 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sc24fun all i can say you are one lucky man to have a woman like you have
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