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I chatted with a couple today who were upset because people assumed they were interested in bi males. They didn't indicate that they weren't interested in males, and their profile indicated that both he & she were both bisexual. What they meant was that he was interested in seeing her in a bisexual pairing, but he wanted nothing to do with another man. Duh! Do miss something? Are there a lot of couples or singles that don't realize what bisexual means?

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I chatted with a couple today who were upset because people assumed they were interested in bi males. They didn't indicate that they weren't interested in males, and their profile indicated that both he & she were both bisexual. What they meant was that he was interested in seeing her in a bisexual pairing, but he wanted nothing to do with another man.

Duh! Do miss something? Are there a lot of couples or singles that don't realize what bisexual means?

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User Details are only visible to members.	It's not about the "lifestyle", it's about people. Honesty is gold and what they did is shit. It doesn't matter that it's common and true honesty is not, it still is shit. This happens in all walks of life and in almost every situation you're faced with. Within a sexual friendship the probability and opportunity for it happening is greater since great sex generally involves closeness. They could have discussed exactly why they needed to reject you, but in all probability they couldn't even discuss it amoung themselves. It may have been pure reaction to something that happened in their lives. Remember this happens within marriages all the time, so when you add one or two more to the equation, the likelihood of it happening only increases.
Enosburg Falls VT			Username hidden (969 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	NJniceguy, sounds like you and the couple may have gotten too close. In the swinging lifestyle many singles or couples would prefer to keep things safe but not too close. It is possible that one of them was more interested than the other and they decided as a couple to cut things off nicely for the sake of their relationship.
Indianapolis IN			Username hidden (251 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hi..same experience here..once we put the "bi" ID on the male, e-mails decreased, but we still get 1/2 of the e-mails from couples & males that list the male as straight...all we are trying to do is meet some nice open minded couples for new experiences...not easy on this site, but having some fun....
Land O Lakes FL			Username hidden (10 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I/We are on the picky side when it comes to choosing our friends. we will go 6 months or more and 20 profiles before we meet a couple we connect with. but thats how we like it. swinging isn't our first priority, so we are able to wait for the right couple, with the male being listed as bi, we only get 4 or 5 emails a month anyway.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (2060 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Ya know we're Bi and tho we wouldn't screw everyone that stopped by , there are a few folks here who wood run into trouble if we ever got close enough to grab hold .... wink wink !
Deptford NJ			Username hidden (157 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	HI..we loo for an open minded, very flexible oral experience, where we all share with each other, prefer groups for play, watching, wife likes to direct...the fun,
Land O Lakes FL			Username hidden (10 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I was not offended. It just seemed your reason was not because you were against single bi males per se, but rather because of observed single bi male behaviors. Just wanted to point out that some of us are gentleman and interested in fun with both halves of a couple and not simply looking to fuck another man's wife.
Indianapolis IN			Username hidden (251 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hey, we're all here to enjoy ourselves. People should meet with whomever they want. If you're not into single guys, that's cool. I don't understand why some people seem to think that every person in the lifestyle is willing to fuck anyone who approaches them. Hell, I'm a single bi guy, and I don't even play with single bi males...
Garden City NY			Username hidden (239 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well I can only tell you what we are looking for and thats FUN nuthin more and nuthin less , if its with a single guy then so be it , a couple or another woman , we are looking to have fun , fuck the night away and have a blast and hope everyone cums back for more , tho we have to admit that finding the right people to have fun with can seem like a job at times its still fun talking and meeting new people who are like minded . Just remember the "key" word is Fun without that its just sex . So whos up for some fun , when we get rolling we talk with British accents for some reason and we sing "Monty Python" songs when we play , kinda weird but we all have a good laff and some hawt orgasms ..... LOL !
Deptford NJ			Username hidden (157 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	bipleasure, I am sorry for your negative experience with single bi men. Too bad, because I can assure you all of us are not cads.
Indianapolis IN			Username hidden (251 post)

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