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TOPIC: Unicorn_males
Created by: fingerfuxs
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WE have some dear friends, a Gay couple that were visiting this week. They laught at us for having to be in the closet * being swingers* and it's a running joke. In conversation we where talking about a common female friend whom we play with when we travel to their home town and refer to her as our awesome unicorn. The question was then asked what would you call a single male unicorn ? Is there a male nic name for a single bi male couples golden ticket for lack of a better description or using the word trophy.

I answered a " swingle" being the best I could think of. Defining swingle as being unisexed. But I know I would catch flac from SM's that aren't bi using the term in some circles.

So if there is commom term or nic name for a single male unicorn please share so I update our friends next time we gossip. Just FYI when I refer to the term BI male, They laugh and say YEA right honey please,,,in good humor of course.

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*c&p* I'm sure you remember the days of the James Bond - international playboy - Hugh Hefner stereo type, they were the original "swingers" and they were single males.

Another good point, and your correct the term swinger come from the "playboy era". Just like Elvis was to rock and roll things progress and today we have different kinds of rock music,hip hop,classic,metal,alternative, indie,,you get my drift.

Today we also have differant kinds of recreational sex too. "Swinger sex" seems to be more a hetero slash bi participation couples sport then a gay or lebian sport couples or not. Singles hetro is just that singles hetro some with fetishes some without.

The Bi female has a tag of being a Unicorn among the swinger and lesbian crowd.

The Bi male doesn't have the "tag" among the swinger or gay crowd. Other then being a Bi male or single male.

Does it matter one way the other...........................nope, I was just curious if there was maybe a tag out there that I hadn't ever heard of.

Me,myself and I have decided to call'um "swingles" ~smile~

Mayhem formally know as the poster that fucker !!!

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*c&p* My belief, swinger is someone who has separated sex from love & committment, and views it as a recreational activity, which they partake in with other like minded people. I believe swinging is a mindset that can be embraced by anyone.

I pose the question to those who say it's couples only. If tomorrow your mate was gone, would your mindset about sex change? Would you suddenly not be a swinger anymore? Me & my wife have discussed this, *********************************************************************************************************************** Great rebuttal, with a interesting question. Your belief is rock solid and yours to own. Good for you :) you own it well.

Yes, we have discussed it and NO we would not still be or desire to be swingers any longer as widowers or divorcees. It's a club we belong to as a couple nothing more nothing less and it does not define us for lack of a better word to use.

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? Who's judging, I read what we are doing is discussing a swinger topic relative to Bi couples. At least that was how I was participating. And that Joey couple are fun to volley with. Well spoken and courteous, a good representation of the swinger youth mindset in the LS IMO.

The recreational sex defination is just part of the discusstion. No harm no foul.

Tomatoe,,,Tomatao

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WOW, for a group of people who should not be judgemental, there's a great deal of labeling going on here. How about this, enjoy life and sex that's acceptable to you and partner, forget the labels and be safe. Does any of this discussion, or debate, really matter?????

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Isn't monogamous single's pre-marital sex with other singles only considered recreational sex anymore? IE being single foot loose and fancy free. Granted swinger sex covers a lot of bases,fetishes and other group dynamic grounds but it's a couples sport at it's core. We use the singles and they use us couples to swing. Without the couples factor it's not swinging it's just seesaw sex.

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So I'm write. unicorn=swinger female single swingle=Bi male swinger single cockroach=single male swinger...j/k...j/k SM hold the hate male *bazinga* bitches !

single male swinger=Horndawg

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I agree actually.

Ive gone back and forth over the years whether "singles are swingers"

I think there are singles who can be classified as swingers. But for the majority, theyre just looking to fuck something and try here.

And youre right. Individual gay people would be the same. Not swingers.

But a gay couple and another gay couple? That could fit the definition.

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*c&p* With all due respect to gay people. I don't think you can find a more active 'swinging" group than them. Of course not everyone. But they seem to hold the original patent on open random sex.

Good post except for one thing I disagree with your word choice~ Swinging ~by definition it is a couples sport. Promiscuous characters would be my words choice to describe the gay sex drive instead of swing group.

Same with open random sex, I don't see swinging as the same random sex that the gay scene is infamous for. Either urban orgy legend wise or the myth that random bathroom or park sex is a given for a large percentage of gay men....with both know that is bullshit. It happens but doesn't define gay sex.

Nope, I disagree them gay azz diva's ain't official swingers unless they are couples. Their Promiscuous bitches with a catty character and a dawg's hormones. **snort**

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With all due respect to gay people. I dont think you can find a more active 'swinging" group than them. Of course not everyone. But they seem to hold the original patent on open random sex.

Ive asked and had lots of conversations about this topic with gay people and they all say that finding a monogamous committed partner for a relationship is difficult. In a way i can understand that. Theyre MEN.

With that said, my best friend growing up just married his long term partner and they are a great match. My wifes best friend is marrying her long term partner in a couple of months also.

So it is possible. But the one thing I do know is that for many, being gay is very lonely. Not to mention the stress involved of "coming out" and living as someone that a lot of the general population automatically hates.

I believe a lot of their random sex habits are more emotionally driven, looking for any kind of contact, than they are necessarily "horniness"

Bi men are shunned by a lot of the gay population. And I think its out of misunderstanding and jealousy.

Gays have a hell of a struggle with things. Meanwhile, I, as a bi guy, dont. I have a 'normal' life, marriage, family, and carry on as a "normal straight man" but yet I dabble on the sex side. So I only get the "fun side" of "being gay' without the real life stigma and struggles that come with it.

And on the original topic. I dont know what you would call "unicorn men" since theyre not all that rare.

The real "unicorn men" regardless of sexual orientation, are men who are REAL SWINGERS.

Ones that understand the lifestyle. Ones who are serious and active. Ones who are not simply cheaters. Ones who know their part with others. Ones who do participate for real.

Those are the unicorns.

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Selfish bastards, don't share well not even a label.... Diva bitches...lol

During conversation with our gay friends that were visiting we were inlighted to the fact that commited and married gay couples do it fact swing. They of course don't call it swinging..* see selfish bastards comment *

They * Gay Community* don't have a name for it persay other then having a open relationship or hook ups....* I called bullshit it's swinging when couples swap* Our friends did confirm that the LGBT is the same as the breeders when it comes to swapping and swinging *smug and judgmental *

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