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TOPIC: Tired of all the secret bi-males in couples

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User Details are only visible to members.	No different than people concealing bigotry in order to find 'more' playmates who will want them. My beef is with the those who come in here demanding any guy with bi experience label themselves so that they can avoid them without divulging their own prejudice. People who would decieve others about their bigotry bitching about being decieved about past experiences, hypocritical in my book. If you want NO BI GUYS, then have the guts & honesty to put "NO BI GUYS!" on your profile. If someone violates that, then they've violated you, react accordingly.
Osterburg PA			Username hidden (303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" I can at least respect a guy who is honest enough to admit his bigotry, instead of lieing to conceal it under the guise of "managing risk"." well, to me it doesn't really matter why it is being concealed, and what reasons one might want to know ... it's deception. and those who do this are choosing to deceive and mis-represent themselves in order to find 'more' playmates who will want them. ...i still think its wrong.... just my opinion.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"...hmmm, well unless you disclose this information from the get go ... it also presents a 'possible higher level of std risk management' for people that have chosen to 'attempt' lowering these risks somehow and they don't know it! i dont really think its right to represent yourself as a straight male if you are bi." ------------------------------------------ There are those who claim to manage STD risk by avoiding bi males. Their logic is flawed, people can allways lie, tests can't ever lie. Any person who tests clean is safe, regardless of their past experiences. Personally, I believe it's none of anyones damn business what my past experiences are. We are clean because we test clean. There are those who still want nuthing to do with a couple if the guy has ever had a bi experience, claiming that they are "managing risk". That's their preference or prejudice, and they are entitled to it, I have no problem with that. I can at least respect a guy who is honest enough to admit his bigotry, instead of lieing to conceal it under the guise of "managing risk". Any bi guy who would conceal the fact he is in order to play with that sort of people is an idiot. It would be like an Afro American painting himself white to attend a klan meeting, he's likely to get killed if he's caught. The big thing that these people fail to understand, is the world doesn't revolve around them & their bigotry. Even as a bi guy, I have my own prejudices. I hate bigots jus as much as they hate queers. It's a damn shame there isn't a blood test for bigotry, people lie, tests don't, as I'm sure will be evidenced in posts to follow.
Osterburg PA			Username hidden (303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"If these guys list as bi, even though thats a tiny part of their interest and not required.....That will eliminate the chances with a lot of couples." -------- ...hmmm, well unless you disclose this information from the get go ... it also presents a 'possible higher level of std risk management' for people that have chosen to 'attempt' lowering these risks somehow and they don't know it! i dont really think its right to represent yourself as a straight male if you are bi. and yes it lessens the pool of playmates, ...our pool is small too for various reasons, but we are honest about it and wish others were too. btw: 'you' is not directed to anyone in particular in this thread... just bi males who say they are straight in general.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2999 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have never found it to be much of an issue for me, people have many reasons for doing what they do. It makes it harder for me to find them, but if they are interested I assume they will find me.
Knightdale NC			Username hidden (264 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I always thought bi meant flexibility in sexuality.
Garden City NY			Username hidden (239 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Looks like JOEY has captured the essence of the most plausible rationale for this issue. (and he isn't even a rocket scientist). WELL DONE!! I say again Houston... WELL DONE!!
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (686 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I used to speak out against this. But now I understand why guys list as straight. From chatting there are A LOT of men that enjoy bi play in a couples situation. And its usually light play....Oral...etc. Very rare do these guys have any interest in anal or anything hardcore. These guys are perfectly capable and interested in playing straight but can be flexible if they are in the right situation. If these guys list as bi, even though thats a tiny part of their interest and not required.....That will eliminate the chances with a lot of couples. So to appeal to the majority they list as straight, and for couples looking for some bi play, they explain that in a private message. I used to have a huge problem with that. But now I understand it and it makes sense to me. I should probably be one of those guys as well. I get into a little light bi play sharing with my wife. But I have no interest in buttsex and no interest in playing with a man one on one. My wife finds it a huge turn on to share and I enjoy it. Since I list as bi. It does cut out a lot of potential playmates even though Im perfectly interested in 100% straight play. I choose to list this way, because as a couple we want to come up in searches to attract guys who are bi friendly. We're not looking to get with 100 people anyway so we would rather get a perfect match ideal situation.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Y hide.it especially if the women dictate what th ey want to see
Bridgewater NJ			Username hidden (218 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If your a bi male and you post that, you get shunned. its difficult enough finding a female swing partner without waving a sign around that you like men too........ Most people here are hypocrites, its fine for the ladies but not for the men....
Reno NV			Username hidden (8 post)

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