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User Details are only visible to members.	Wecome to the Forums Cple4 :)
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I know since we have been in the lifestyle 20 plus yrs. the lifestyle has come 180 degrees to accepting of Bi men. But you can go overseas and it is totally acceptable to be a Bi Male
Bellevue NE			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	cple4 That would be like asking the vanilla population to publicly fess up to wanting sex with others outside their marriage. Many many do but..... Doubt either will ever happen.
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (686 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If every closeted bi-sexual males would come out and admit that they are bi. the lifestyle would be more acceptable to us as they are to bi-females. SO CUM OUT CUM OUT WHERE EVER YOU ARE. AND ADMIT that you are bi-sexual and be proud of it
Bellevue NE			Username hidden (6 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I look at the orientation as a little more geared toward the type of play you are looking for. if a bi guy contacts a straight couple for straight play and when they meet he keeps the play straight. Then whether or not he is bi doesnt matter. If it werent for the fact that we are looking for bi play. Then I would list as straight as well. I have been with women and couples many times and there was no male contact involved. So for those couples and women the fact that i also am flexible with some light bi play doesnt matter.
Mount Juliet TN			Username hidden (662 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I find I prefer to leave any statements about bi males off my profile, due to the fact that if a male listed as str8 but enjoys bi play and wants to keep his ability to hide it from cpls/single fems that do NOT care for contact from bi or sometimes bi males they will read it and just keep it secret. If I however do not mention it they will usually tell you in conversation.
Spring TX			Username hidden (1844 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"draggon, while I respect your right to express your opinion, I find it (in my opinion) rather judgmental and narrow. I would suggest that in most cases nothing is being "concealed". " ------- ....hey, i'm sorry if i have offended any (or all) of the males that are bi, but list as straight. it was not my intention but i do have my own feelings about it. i really do happen to feel strongly about honesty, in life, and here on sls and in the lifestyle. please first know that i have no problem AT ALL with bi-anyone, and if i choose to play with a male that is bi, that would be my choice. if i prefer not to play with a bi male, and he is listed as straight ...and does not tell me differently from the get go, ....i feel i have pretty much lost my right to choose, and quite honestly, that would offend me. i am fully aware of how many things people may 'conceal' on their profile, perhaps, i think this one ...is a 'little' more important than if they are 20 pounds over their listed weight ...and things such as that. (which doesn't thrill me either btw) no one has to agree with me.... it is just my opinion as i said in my earlier post, and thank you ....for the right to express it ...as i also respect anyone who may choose to just go with the flo and think it is ok to say whatever it takes to get more people to play with. ...trust me, i'm no fan of a small pool of playmates either... ...i understand the 'reason' why, and i'm sincerely sorry that you feel you have to say anything other than what you are. that too is a little sad to me.
Kunkletown PA			Username hidden (2981 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Have to agree with Always, go with the flo, the discussion appears to be beoming judgemental and far to serious. It's suppose to be about fun, a simple no has always worked here.
Milesburg PA			Username hidden (71 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	16667 The converse is also true. Keep in mind there is a better than even chance that when a "st8" guy contacts you, he knows what he is after and so do you! So..if it's a match when you talk or meet forget the label and go with the flow...
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (686 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	draggon, while I respect your right to express your opinion, I find it (in my opinion) rather judgmental and narrow. I would suggest that in most cases nothing is being "concealed". As with most thing in our lives it is rarely absolutely black or white but actually some shade on a scale between but including the 2 absolute points. I will elaborate by analogy: (bear with me as I go through this) Most people live their lives "intending" to obey the law. Most everyone "prefers" to be law abiding. They consider themselves and society considers them "law abiding". We all know that nearly everyone breaks some law everyday and often many laws everyday. Following your definition they are "concealing" the fact that they are in fact law breakers when they label themselves law abiding. By strict definition we are ALL law breakers and there are no law abiding people. Well, human nature being what it is, if asked most everyone would reply that they are law abiding and in doing so would not (except by strict definition) be concealing anything. We all are for all intents and purposes right and honest in saying we are law abiding. (that is our intent and our preference). That is "truth" at a societal level which is mandatory if we're to all function in collaboration. That said, many who list as str8 "prefer" hetero play and their "intent" is to play hetero. That is, they do not desire to play only same sex. Perhaps at some time or another in their life they had some same sex play. Many of those may still prefer hetero play and would not desire to play same sex. To my way of thinking they are not homosexual. They would by strict definition be "bisexual". (after all they had the experience). Which brings us back to the to the point. I would suggest that while a person may prefer opposite sex partners, if they were playing in a hetero play session but would under some "personal set of criteria" allow some degree of same sex contact they would not be concealing anything. They are still "law abiding" or "st8" to a societal standard. As to the point with regard to STD's Playing in this life style is risky. All should assume personal responsibility for our actions. If not don't play! IMHO everyone should be considered and treated as though they had std's unless they have 3 consecutive months of clean health cards and then it's still a crap shoot and one should play only at the level of risk they're willing to accept. ( be that bareback or full dental dam and double condoms marinated in anti-viral & antibacterial goop!) Just sayin' !!
Sacramento CA			Username hidden (686 post)

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