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If you respond to a profile who's requirements you do not fit, you should not expect an answer. If people don't meet the criteria in my profile, and still send an e-mail, why should I be inconvenienced?

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Couples who say they are open to meeting single males can get quite a bit of email from males. Most of those emails say nothing but "I wanna fuck." It can get annoying.

These couples may be looking for a very specific man. Not any man, not all men, but very specific men. Nine of the ten who write aren't that man from that first email. It's much easier to write only to that one out of ten. If you'd read half of our email, you'd not want to write back either.

Once you establish an email relationship, it may take time to actually meet. We have busy lives and don't neccessarily meet every weekend. We may like to meet the one or two men we've found we like more than once or twice. So our free time is limited. Keep writing to keep the email relationship going, because life can get in the way and we can forget a guy who doesn't remind us every month or so.

Relax, it's not easy.

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Let the one's who don't answer go - a "no answer" amounts to "no thank you". Make a note on their profile and move on. One piece of advice: remove all the complaining and dis-satisfaction from your profile. Write your profile to the people you want to reach. Writing stuff to people you are not interested in is not only a waste of time, it really tends to put off the people you DO want to reach.

It would be great if all the real couples who really play had a green flag on their profiles - and in a way they do. (Glowing certs saying they have really played amount to green flags.) They may not be interested in YOU, but at least they are real.

When you communicate through the web, always remember these are real people, real couples. Even though you are on the internet, behave the same way you'd behave face to face.

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