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TOPIC: Profile Name
Created by: jackguiness
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I was messaging with a couple earlier today and things seemed to be going well.... When I gave them my phone number i also gave them my name, which naturally is not actually JackGuiness... Then they sent me the following message

"We have been totally honest with you. A lie is a very poor way to start a relationship."

WTF!!?!?!? They were made at me because i did not use my real name when first messaging with them... a few minutes after they sent the message, they blocked me.... I could really care less, because I am not interested in meeting a couple who is going to freak out over something like a name, but am wondering if others have run into this too..... I am under the assumption that people's profile names are not their real names and that even if they give me their name that it could be a name they use for swinging, but not their real name and I really don't think it is that big of a deal.... I assume people do it for discretion ... What do other people think... Am I right for thinkng they are whack-jobs for getting so upset over a profile name? I should add that I gave them my phone number and told them to call me anytime, yet they never reciprocated.

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biguyonli happens not to be my given name either... I did pick a name that honestly describes me... bi guy on LI (Long Island).

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Most likely they were not really into playing anyway, and that was their easiest excuse for a way out.

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Wow. Like john7361 said, be glad that you found out now that they are loopy, as opposed to finding out later!

Of course I assume that people are not using their real names for their profiles, particularly with obviously fake names like ours or that of a drink. I even sign our messages with a reference to our profile name, not with my own name, until a certain level of trust is established.

I certainly care about honesty versus lies and even distrust when a person/couple's private communication is decidedly not in sync with the profile, but I do not consider a fake name on a public profile for the sake of protecting privacy a "bad lie."

Mrs.DE <- case in point

Federal Way WA
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Our profile name is not our birth names either, LMAO!!!

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The wife uses her initals as her name, TJ if they say were liars then they are folks we don't need to play with. I use Bill hell could use my middle name no one calls me that anyway. In the end you were honest with them. We don't give out our SS#'s either, even though we have life lock LOL. Better safe than sorry.

Billy & TJ

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just be glad you found out they were nuts now instead of later.

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I was messaging with a couple earlier today and things seemed to be going well.... When I gave them my phone number i also gave them my name, which naturally is not actually JackGuiness... Then they sent me the following message

"We have been totally honest with you. A lie is a very poor way to start a relationship."

WTF!!?!?!? They were made at me because i did not use my real name when first messaging with them... a few minutes after they sent the message, they blocked me.... I could really care less, because I am not interested in meeting a couple who is going to freak out over something like a name, but am wondering if others have run into this too..... I am under the assumption that people's profile names are not their real names and that even if they give me their name that it could be a name they use for swinging, but not their real name and I really don't think it is that big of a deal.... I assume people do it for discretion ... What do other people think... Am I right for thinkng they are whack-jobs for getting so upset over a profile name? I should add that I gave them my phone number and told them to call me anytime, yet they never reciprocated.

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