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TOPIC: Missing Single Bi Males

Created by: JnS1 Original Starting post for this thread:
We are wondering if there are any “true” single bi males out there. We advertise that we play with single bi males and receive quite a few inquiries, but… When a guy writes to us I ( wife) replies back, my first question is asking if they are bi. We have learned that many men don’t state they are bi (double standards?). Then I ask if they are oral only, a bi top, or bi bottom. We also request a G rated picture, which can be sent to our yahoo. I also tell them the one rule we have is that the men play together first (with me in the room). This is where the men who are not bi never respond, which is fine. Then we have the ones that say “that sounds great, when do we meet?” So we ask for a picture, no response back or we see a picture and plan a meeting and they disappear, never to be heard from again. So our question is; are there other couples out there as frustrated with the “missing” bi males? It seems like only 1 in every 25 “single bi male” actually goes thru with a meeting.

Created by: JnS1
Original Starting post for this thread:

We are wondering if there are any “true” single bi males out there.  We advertise that we play with single bi males and receive quite a few inquiries, but… When a guy writes to us I ( wife) replies back, my first question is asking if they are bi.  We have learned that many men don’t state they are bi (double standards?).  Then I ask if they are oral only, a bi top, or bi bottom.  We also request a G rated picture, which can be sent to our yahoo. I also tell them the one rule we have is that the men play together first (with me in the room).  This is where the men who are not bi never respond, which is fine. Then we have the ones that say “that sounds great, when do we meet?” So we ask for a picture, no response back or we see a picture and plan a meeting and they disappear, never to be heard from again. So our question is; are there other couples out there as frustrated with the “missing” bi males? It seems like only 1 in every 25 “single bi male” actually goes thru with a meeting.

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User Details are only visible to members.	It COULD be CZ after all...more deception! Bi the way... both our "Bidar" was going crazy looking at his pics...seriously it was! Me thinks he doth protest too much?
Palmerton PA			Username hidden (285 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OMFG will youse guys stop flaming Scotty he can't help that at the ripe old age of 36 he is going or should I say bald has to use a towel to help enhance his cock size or cover his middle age spread and man boobs . Tho I wanna say something about that "HUGE" rock he got his beautiful wife but that wood mean he is over compensating for that lack of penis size I bet he drives a HUGE truck as well .
Deptford NJ			Username hidden (157 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Most of those certifications were from one meeting in Splash, btw. One even made fun of his "attitude". No doubt he's actually a funny guy and if he wasnt so homophobic I think he'd be great to have around...we think much of his sarcasm is lost on the internet.
Palmerton PA			Username hidden (285 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We agree we bicpl's thought on Scotty. This guy is everywhere in the forums, doing nothing but putting people down that he don't know. We find it amazing that he and his wife have managed to receive 6 certifications.
Branson MO			Username hidden (34 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	cs93961 said---"check out scottys profile pics, the one where he's got a towel on his dick. First 6' 180 lb guy I've seen with man-boobs and a spare tire. Talk about deceptive advertising" OMG we are SO laughing our asses off!! Its SO true...TOTALLY DECEPTIVE! what do you think is more accurate? 210#? and 5'7" and 170?? We're guessing #225
Palmerton PA			Username hidden (285 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	My (the Mrs.) point of view. I think it depends on what you are looking for being in "the lifestyle". We are only looking for Bi play because for us the str8 swapping was very unsatisfying about 95% of the time. So we are both listed as bi and try to explain what we are looking for in our profile. Now we tried to keep an open mind about guys listed as str8 and completely understand the tolerance issues BUT - we got so tired of str8 guys lying and down right rude letters - we now feel it's a waste of time even trying to correspond with guys listed as str8. There's just so much we can take ! And to add another 2 cents - we've had almost as much problems looking for single bi females. When they just want to chat with him - and here's a good one - want to know why I'm on here "snooping" around... I'd say here's another one with an agenda. So bi , str8, male, fem, we like to chat first but those str8 "bi" guys just pushed our buttons one too many times.
Deptford NJ			Username hidden (157 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Unfortunately, a lot of straight guys in the lifestyle assume that because I'm bi, I won't be able to keep my hands off of him, as if I'm some kind of butt rapist looking to deflower all male asses. I've gotten that sort of response from dozens of couples on this site. I'm not sticking my dick anywhere it isn't wanted, and I'm not turning down anyone who does want it based on gender. Personality, maybe, but gender, never.
Garden City NY			Username hidden (239 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I agree that the swinging community in general has a schizophrenic (hypocritical?) view on bi-sexuality and the open physical expression of it. This is a little sad and ironic for a group that presumably considers itself to be open and tolerant to personal choice. I have come across a lot of bi guys who advertise themselves as straight, for whatever reason: friends potentially stumbling across their ad; fear that they may be excluding themselves from 'straight' 4somes. I have met both men and women who are tuned off by male bisexuality and each situation is different and is it a personal call for each guy to make regarding his own disclosure on the site. It is a real shame that even in the closed world of SLS, we guys can't be honest. Perhaps the answer is more sexual classifications on the site: heteroflexible; trysexual; recreational bi-sexual? Perhaps that way, we can feel free to convey exactly what we are and are looking for without being forced into a binary choice. On a more philosophical point, as a white male working in corporate America, I have never really faced discrimination. Having received a little discrimination whilst being a single bi male, it made me feel pretty angry that people couldn't accept me as I was. Worth considering about how we think about certain other groups in society, maybe we are all guilty of some prejudice every now and again.
Ringwood NJ			Username hidden (1 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OMFG we met one of the "Missing" single bi guys and he list himself as Bi as well , who wood have thought ..... LOL ! Anyway we had a great time and are looking forward to many more times Ya Hooooooooooo ! So heres the thing guys if your bi and you enjoy it why not list yourself as such , we won't even talk with a guy or woman for that matter who insist that their bi in an email to us unless of course they have pix as proof , till such time we will continue to say no tankx to those unwilling to be real about who they are .
Deptford NJ			Username hidden (157 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I always go through. I'm bi but don't put it on my profile becuase it scares most people off. I wish I could. I love meeting sexy fun couples.
Highland MI			Username hidden (1 post)

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