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TOPIC: Bi couples who are notfull swap!!
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We are full swap but not a deal breaker for us, we are go with the flow kind of people

Livermore CA
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Justfun4us, we are basically in the same boat you are. We are fortunate to have two other couples that we play with that are ok with our rules. I am willing to let my wife be with another man and even want her to. She's not ready yet, but I'm hoping!lol Until then we are still what did you call it? "Bi Full Swap?"lol

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So here's our dilemma on this. We are both newish to bi play but we are also both 100% ok with our spouse doing whatever he/she wants with the same sex. No limits as long as they are good with it and it is in the same room.

But (always a but), we aren't comfortable with either of us having sex with the opposite sex of the other couple. We haven't ruled out oral but it really isn't something we have the desire to explore. It is more about the bi fantasy with us right now.

How would we be classified in the world of SLS. Are we bi full swap? That category doesn't really exist so we feel we may be misleading. Unfortunately though, most of the members contacting us seem to either be fakes or they lead us on for a long period of time with messages, mails...etc and then flake out when we want to voice verify that the women are real. There also aren't a bunch of bi couples that are already verified.

We are patient if not anything else but we do get frustrated. :)

Chesterfield MO
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My wife and I aren't full swap and aren't really soft swap either. But my wife has opened up a lot and is more at ease with being touched by another man now. We have always had fun with other couples and looking forward to a lot more.

Mobile AL
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met a couple and it was hot that she watched as her hubby blew me, so got so hot, wow.

Decatur IL
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My wife and i are a full, soft, or same room couple..These are boundaries we set for ourselves..These could change, but for now this is it..I think health boundaries are very important..you are in charge of your own body! Thank you for posting this, a lot of good advice too!

San Jose CA
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I've had many very enjoyable times with bi couples that were not full swap, and had no problem with that. Nothing wrong with a couple having some restrictions. This lifestyle can be more than just sex. You can get to meet and know some very nice people, and develop friendships with extra benefits.

Waukesha WI
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Definitely agree; full swap is no deal killer.

Knightdale NC
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Agreed. Not being full swap is not a deal killer. There is more than one way to skin a cat, right! It could actually make things a bit more interesting if done right. I played with a 'non-full-swap bi couple and had a great time and everyone left happy...

Come to think of it I was dating a vanilla girl and her & did did that a few times just for fun. Get each other off but no sex. (According to Bill Clinton anyway) You may be in the minority but no worries... Just a little bit of patience.

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I've played with a couple that is not full swap, and have had a lot of fun with them. There are still so many oral options available in a MMF threesome, all of which are hot. If a couple is only into oral, no problem. Anyone who wouldn't get off on a hubby/wife blowjob or getting to go down on both of them is nuts!

Garden City NY
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