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Great assessment, Atl!

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Atlglory Agreed. Agreed and agreed.

Prescott AZ
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Wow, so interesting, and the saga continues. Lol

I know that this is an old topic that gets “beat to death,” but I’m glad it was resurrected for another quick round. It gives a great place to relieve a little frustration, anxiety, and share a new thought or two. Thanks guys…all of you. I read tremendously more than I comment, but I can’t resist a word or two here.

As for the labels…our profiles here are a form of advertisement, nothing less. You do well to choose the “label(s)” that will best catch the attention of the audience whom you desire to attract. The same is true of the photos that you post, the information and/or disclaimers that you give, etc… I find it best to just realize that people are trying to put their best foot forward here and at least get the chance for an “interview,” an opportunity to try and sell themselves a little better in person. That’s OK with us, and we just don’t slam anyone too much over a label. I understand that many here do, but we just don’t.

@JamietheCD: Agree, agree, agree!

@bicple: Well said. You are far better with your comments than I, so I’ll just say again…well said.

@sweetzabelle: I have to agree, we all read and post where we wish.

In fact, I find it edifying to see posts from different points of view myself. Nevertheless, as for me, I would never make a decision to have sex (of any kind) based upon information that was written in a profile, nor would I based the prevailing “risk factor” upon what someone even told me in person. Doing so is simply naive.

People will be “deceitful,” and I find absolutely no reassurance in what they say here. You and I agree totally that “honesty is the best policy.” I think that we may go about making that assessment in different ways, that’s all. In any case, it’s always fun to read your comments.

Robert (& Giselle)

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"All I ask is clarify exactly what you want when you contact us."

Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bedford PA
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Jamie and Billnsuzie, well said. All I ask is clarify exactly what you want when you contact us.

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The problem I believe is that when someone lists their sexuality incorrectly, others who may contact them expecting a MFMF encounter are disappointed and then have a negative opinion of all of us. Some people believe that bi men are dangerous because so many have indiscriminate casual sex with just anyone without benefit of protection. Now this opinion, right or wrong, is their privilege . By listing incorrectly, you denied your potential partner the right to choose exactly who they wish to play with. Some may make the argument that full disclosure comes via the first couple emails. That will not work for me. Swinging is a recreation for us. We have a full life outside the life. I do not wish to waste any of the time I invest in swinging on people I will not consider meeting.

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My thoughts are, if you think of yourself as bi or curious and you list yourself as straight you are not telling the truth to others who read your profile. If you don't think you are bi or curious then of course you are straight, no matter what you have done sexually. It is truly that simple, if you think you are straight than you are straight. If you think you are bi then you are bi. It really doesn't matter what others want to label you as, that is up to you.

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Never been to France.. Is it nice there? Hope I don't get labeled as "French curious!" ??

Spring TX
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We just changed our username here. Will be moving soon to another area and with as little as we play where he is BI, we are just gonna keep him listed as straight. We will reference our old username so people will know he is at least slightly bi. In our opinion, If you travel to France a couple times and return home to the US all the time, it definitely doesnt make you french....

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HI all, Just want to say how many times I get IM's from guys listed as "straight" who want to see pictures of my junk or want to meet me without their wives for sex. I don't necessarily blame them for listing straight as their preference if they are just coming to terms with their bi'ness. The deception comes in if they don't have a wife at all or they use the promise of a threesome to get to a m2m session. I have been with many men one on one but use this site to primarily meet with couples; there is nothing better than three people pleasing each other simultaneously.

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