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I think most of the bi men in couples are hiding that fact from their wives moreso than the outside world. I never told my wife about my bi thoughts until the situation happened in a 3som with a lot of alcohol involved and he and I ended up into things not even realizing she was watching. Apparently we thought she left. But were too drunk to notice.

The next day she asaked me "was it the alcohol or do you think you like it" I told her the truth that I did like it. Much to my relief she said "awesome cause it was a major turn on". The next day we changed me from straight to bi on our profiles and the rest is history.

But its something that even though we were open with eachother I would have been reluctant to come out with in just talking for fear it would have scared her.

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Thank you. Honesty and folks knowing themselves is sooo sexy.

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Caroline30907, well said, I couldn't agree more.

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Oh my. I has been our experience that Bi males are often "in hiding" on the profiles as straight....and Black Males are even more "Quiet" re their orientation.

Sad. At a certain age, folks should be able to fly their flag and be who they are and have their needs met. Discretion is necessary for all, but it makes it difficult to meet others who enjoy group bi love ....when the folks on line don't even know themselves.

Be comfortable in your own skin, know yourselves well and get your needs met. :) Simple.

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all the replies have been great and I understand how you see things....its cool that so many bi cpls have contacted us since we began posting here in the forums vs it just being on our profile....

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Couldn't agree more, in later life my buddy did each other after a night of play with the girls, no big deal really. i'd tried it as a teen but as you say I'd be queer in a small town so never again. Would not have a problem if all are on board an it just happens to my all feel good.

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About 50% of the white guys who say they are straight turn out to be bi when they see that I use my strap-on on guys. So, we have a large group of guys on our list that we invite to our bi swing parties. However, black guys seem much more reluctant to give you any indication they are bi until I ask them directly. So, it has been much harder to find a group of black guys for our bi swing parties. But, we have, and we all have great times.

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Well said Doc

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Applauds Doc!

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Amen Doc!

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