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TOPIC: BS couples
Created by: biguyonli
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Seems like everytime I get invited to a private chat by a "couple", it's the "husband". Hee proceeds to tell me all these great things "they" are into. Usually he wants to see pics, or a cam show. Never hear from"them" again. Maybe this site needs an "Uncertfied" label for these people...
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Hee HEE ...U bet we do :-) That was the first real fun we had via internet!! You dont forget your first! We actually were looking at the pics the other day :D Man you guys are SO far away and that was so much fun...one of these days........... XOOOXXX chris and sue

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That's a great idea!

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Look... (smiling) I'm not trying to force you to do what WE did. What we did works. We have had success with it, it has saved us lots of time and B.S., and we've met people and played with them by getting directly to the phone call. If you don't want to give out your no#, then don't. We bought a seperate cell phone for this. It's not that expensive. (considering what many of us spend on dinner, drinks, swing-clubs, etc... to meet people) It took us quite a while of trial and error to turn the Casino's odds in our favor and start to win a little at this, so if this advice helps another frustrated couples seach results, great... that's why I said it. :) if (as the couple below) you want to know them in person first, then do it that way. good luck. :)

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OOPs forgot one point.....Keep in mind that some people HATE talking on the phone, especially when like us they had a few experiences where people wanted it to evolve into phone sex which we dont find interesting in any way shape or form... so your test wouldnt work with us ....we think the certification feature is good enough and meeting someplace fun where if we dont vibe sexually we can all still have a good time!

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Just for fun, Good advice....Sure that is pretty much necessary if you want to meet face to face with an individual/couple on Yahoo since any "yahoo" can join....which is why we wouldnt even waste time on there one on one. We think its best to join groups like New England Party People and go to events, its alot easier! You recognise many people from here on there and you know they are real and vice versa. SLS does have many good features especially the certification feature. Its like that old commercial "and they tell 2 friends and so on and so on....." We checked out other pay services like Bisexual Playground but they just arent as good as here. Although they have a COOL in depth questionaire ...That place has that annoying rating feature some want here. They have by far fewer members and I think that's part of it. :-) chris of sue

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We made a similar post to this already on another thread, but it's pretty simple...

When you first meet on Yahoo, you ask to share a G rated pic. If you (and the other 'supposed' couple like what they see) You IMMEDIATELY ask if you can call them. If they make excuses.... BAIL OUT IMMEDIATELY.

There are a LOT of ways that you can 'screen somebody out' in about 2 minutes if you have the foresight and guts to do it. Don't let them keep you chatting for 10 minutes if they are obviously a fake. Just say, "my wife would like to chat on the phone with your wife, ok?" and I GUARANTEE that they will either do it, or the excuses will start to fly.

I have found (through MONTHS of experience on this website) that when you put someone to an immediate answer like that, you catch the fakers fast.

Tawney

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I agree with bicpl4u2pa - allowing negative feedback or a warning list sounds like a bad idea, that could quickly degenerate. An antecdote: when we first joined, we got an email from one couple that we weren't interested in, and wrote a polite "no thanks" back. To which they replied "It's fakes like you that give this site a bad reputation! ..." etc. I have no idea what provoked the angry response, other than sour grapes, but I'm glad that there wasn't some mechanism for them to flag us as "fakes", particularly as we were just getting started.

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The subject of listing BS people etc has come up many times before and fortunately the webmasters have the good sense to realise the idea is ludicrous at best! Abuse would run rampant, rejected people would hold vendettas, certain people would be persecuted wether it be becasue they are str8,bi,black,latino, etc not to mention the total waste of time and memory better served for developing an expanded search engine ,etc. Think about it more and you'd realise its just a stupid idea to "rate" members in any way shape or form! The webmasters run a site that is of service to us and themselves and make some $ on the side. The webmaster is not nor should ever be "BigBrother".

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Hi Folks! we have the same problem here people mostly single males that can`t read and always think they will be the exception..would be nice if the webmaster would consider a way to list these BS people then maybe they would go away or be real!

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For a while, we posted a list of "phonies" in our profile. However, the webmaster politely told us we weren't allowed to do that so we removed the names. But the idea of starting a website dedicated to listing the "phonies" with backup information has crossed our minds.

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