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i'll follow with the majority,would be nice if the couple that i've rated would be able to see that i'm interested

Port Charlotte FL
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The wink and the "see who has looked at your profile" features have been discussed several times. They each have their pros and their cons.

Now, as to the star system.... It's certainly simpler and quicker than writing a note, but if it's not visible when you view a list, I don't see the benefit.

Columbia MD
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We really like the "wink" idea from that other site (which is not nearly as good overall as SLS) and the idea that you can see who has viewed you. It sometimes opens up possibilities that may not have been there before. The "star" rating begun here is a neat idea and certainly we will play with it and see if we like it.

Tonawanda NY
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You know what would be great instead? A tool that says, these members have viewed you (unless the specifically chose through tools to be anonymous).

This tool doesn't need to be 3 stars. It simply needs a "block member" button. It's not like there are so many people in a local area that we can't just hit "add as friend" for quick reference of people we really want to get to know.

And while we are at it, and this is totally constructive cause we LOVE this site... how about better search parameters and more complete profile info for each member?

Make it so that we can search for people based on specific criteria such as:

"Income level", "Education", "Kids", "Time swinging", "STD Test Mandatory" and various interest levels in specific activities "Bondage", "Leather", "Costume play", "Oral", "Anal", "Interracial", "Safe Sex Only"... and the list goes on and on, but you could hit the major points. You could even let people say "Yes/Undecided/No" on each item with the default being undecided.

By the way, our idea isn't to FORCE people to click education or income. It's just an option to make finding your profile easier for those who select on those criteria. Some of us our out here want to make friends with benefits, and want to acquire friends who are on our own intellectual level and can enjoy the same things we do financially. Fucking is fine, and yes, it's super super fun. But for those of us who want more, it would help screen out people who simply don't match our ideals.

We realize it may draw fire to post this and to those we offend, we sincerely apologize for hurting your feelings. We simply want to offer our views on enhancing the site. We think it could get better with enough time for the admins to work on it.

If the admins want to discuss our ideas, send us an email or call us. We'd love to help make this place the best it can be.

Chesterbrook PA
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It doesn't seem very useful to me. If it was a wink to the other couple letting them know that you rate them highly, that would be nice. But as for tracking your thoughts about a profile, that's what the notes section is for, right?

Carlsbad CA
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It's great if like a wink on AFF. In other words, it sends a message to another couple letting them know what you thinkof them. Anthing more than that is sort of overkill.

Florence AZ
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It would be nice to see how other people rated your profile,In stead of just being private info. That what the notes are for.

Theodore AL
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The Webmaster misspelled "Definitly"

"Interest Selection Not Made Yet No selection made No Interest Hide Member Not Interested Maybe Interested Maybe YES Yes Definitely Interested Definitly"

Euless TX
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it would be nice if you click on the star and it lets you know if you viewed that profile before or if you click on it and it lets you know if the profile has new pics or has been updated

Philadelphia PA
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Ok. How dose it works? lets say if we rate a member, are they gone be able to see there rating as well?

Paramus NJ
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