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In regard to what 2inVT said....

Check... Phone numbers, dates we met them, things like that all go in the notes.

Check... Some people say that winks are great if you're shy... but if you're too shy to write a polite email, how are you going to reply if they respond to your wink?

Check... We look at lots of profiles. New members, forum posters, people who give certs to couples we're considering contacting... We don't want to have to deal with dozens of people writing to us and saying "why did you look at our profile?" And can you imagine the number of such hits a new couple or unicorn gets? The flood could be very intimidating... especially if that person/couple writes back to ALL of them... and gets a lot of "sorry, we're not interested" or no reply.

Check... Who really needs to see that a couple has marked you as "no interest" completely out of the blue? We don't want to see SLS turn in to a swingers version of "hot or not."

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The stars are a good idea if you don't take the time to use "notes". We find notes more informative instantly. We think it would be more helpful to have a method of letting the other couple know your interest. Not necessarily a "level" of interest, but just an interest. Yes, a message is better but we don't always have the time to compose a really good one and include pics. Just the fact that someone has looked and is interested is enough to make us want to email THEM!

Columbus GA
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it nice to rate people but there a lot of flake profile out there mostly guy's saying there a clp how do you sort them out ?

Cortland NY
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Still working out bugs? I "not interested" a profile a few hours ago and didn't notice any change accept the box around my choice. There were not hidden in the "Who's on" list. Now the same profie shows no selection at all.

Auburn WA
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We can't even figure out how it works. If we check a couples profile and mark that we are interested, does that couple see that? Totally lost,lol. We think there should be a better explanation of this feature. We would be happy just to know who viewed us and see if our profiles match to where we would like to make contact

Gainesville FL
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Heh just put notes saying why you are not interested them search for "without notes" of course these change have broken that for the who's on search.

Webmaster can we get anyone with notes converted to not interested with this change, because we use notes that way since they were the only tool practical before.

Covington KY
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I don't "get" the wink feature. If you are interested in someone, send them a message. To me a wink says, "We don't have enough interest in you to actually take the time to write you a message." If someone winks at you, what do you do? Wink back at them? Then what?

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Coral Springs FL
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Etex, I agree with you. This is a piddling bone. Give us some real meat lol

Delton MI
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We are an over 50yrs couple.It would be nice to have a Wink to let us know those who have an interest.It would save a lot of time mailing to those who have no interest.

Can this be done?

Garland TX
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This is a total waste of time and development by SLS. So what if you can sort/view/list or whatever to find those that you have interest in based on rating that YOU give them. Put them on you friends list for Petes sake!. Send them an email, use the tools already available. A better use of time and development would be ditching the profiles that 1..may have you or your status blocked, 2. have no interest in ( as in my case) single as based on THE TEXT IN A PROFILE too as we know the bar indicator is so abused and mis-used. Hey couples!!!..dont ya know that couples include a male already!!!..so if your NOT interested in males (single) please put the interest bar at ZERO for males. I am sick of having your profiles show up in MY searches giving I and other males "false hope" and generating mail..never answered. If you are occasionaly interested in a single males for MFM, etc, you can search for them independant of having the interest level bar for males active. You will get less unsolicited mail, video chat requested, etc. Sorry for the rant.....

Tyler TX
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