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I fell in love with David Caruso on NYPD Blue and I'm still lusting after him. S

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Joy,

David Caruso (Horatio Caine) has that "tantra" look in his eyes when he stares at women. It always makes me melt (:

Mmmmmmmmm Mmmmmmm Mmmmm!

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Makes mental note.......

Techie is shy. Techie is a computer geek.

Hmmmmmmm! My most favorite and most talented playmates have been shy computer geeks.

Winks at Techie ( ;

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cb3some,

No one but you sees your rating. It is for your eyes only.

Sending someone a personalized message means so much more to most people than some automated feature. Just say what comes natural. The worse they can do to you is... nothing, no reply back.

I doubt there are many people more shy than I am. If I can send dozens of messages everyday, I know you can.

Tech Support -W

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Welcum to the forums cb3

You are correct

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Ok...I thinking Ive got this straight with everything Ive read. If I click very interested on someones profile, they dont see it? Correct? I was hoping that they would see it so it would break the ice a little. I have that slight shyness to get things started so, that would be perfect for me.

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We're like Perm, we're online at different times during the day, and while the Notes are a good feature, I like the "interest stars" too. If he marks a profile with one star, obviously, I won't bother wasting my time.

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Your missing what web said.. he said you and your spouse are the only ones who can see the stars at all. My hubby and I search the net at different times. we use notes alot of the time to communicate with each other and what we think of who and if emailed and the response. it helps us narrow our searches more and more. Lots less time spent viewing things we already have. We have been using sls for many years.

The stars now make me not have to open notes and click my interest and him his and we can check out the others likes. See if we both feel that way.

Noone sees the stars.. so noone knows what you said.. you may get an email from someone who you found not physically appealing and decide to change it and the star not an issue. Noone is setting prejudice or hurtful anythings by using them just able to know what you have already done.

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Whatever happens to the individuals rights to choose. If people go on rating saying they are not interested, someone else wouldnt give them a time of day. You cant really judge people by their profile. We do the best we can to describe ourselves but many things change in certain situations. It is all about comfort and how you click with the couple. Each couple has their own choice of who they like, I just dont see the point in going on to rate people. If you dont like them great, then move on, no need to dwell over and say well not interested so everyone else can see. So what, then go on to find who you like without the stars. We are not graded on how many stars we obtain, but by the memories we make and the fantasies we fulfill. This is suppose to be fun...Not another job. Then again tyhat is just our opinion minus the stars. DnJ

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The 'interest' are only viewable by the member that set the interest. It is for the sole purpose of indicating, for yourself, whether you are interested in a specific member or not.

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