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I don't like the way the stars thing works either. Consequently, for the longest time I have just blocked everyone in my geographic area that mentions in their profile that they have no interest in single guys, or are above my age preferences, or are way too fat for my tastes, etc.

As a result, my blocked list is hundreds long. The result though is whenever I log on I only see the people I might have an interest in, or brand new people to the site. Sure makes llife a lot easier than weeding through pages of profiles I may have already looked at only to find that they are not looking for someone like me, or I'm not looking for their type.

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But you see, the whole point of what you are calling "blind emails" is that they are an INTRODUCTION. A wink does nothing except show me that someone can click on an icon. It doesn't show me that you have any more than a passing interest. We get tons of winks on other sites, and frankly, I'm sick of them. RARELY, if ever, does anyone actually take the time to email after sending a wink.

This is about marketing, and sending a positive, upbeat introductory email is what is, in the end, going to gain you far more than sending a wink or two at folks who may or may not be interested. S

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This site has a wonderful system available for letting people know you'er interested! It's called e-mail!!! Works quite nicely too...

just sayin'

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Hi... thanks for the help.

That's not a bad added feature, but it still includes people for whom I haven't made any decision. I prefer the additive approach, not the subtractive. I just want to mark the ones I like then pull them up later. The way it looks like that feature works now is that I'd have to mark "no" all the people I don't like then view who is left.

Can you add "show only interested" to the search instead of just "hide not interested"? That would be great.

Thanks

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Hi!

On this feature, I think it shoudl be treated like a "hotlist" is on other sites. Saying "interested" is confusing because it sounds like it may be a wink, ie. that it may be communicated to the other party.

I've set a few to interested, but now how do I go back and list all those that I marked to show them to my partner or start sending emails to them? That's the key piece missing.

I like to browse and collect, then go back and write to those I've collected.

The way it seems now, I mark someone as interested, but then nothing happens, I have no access to those decisions unless I randomly find that profile again and notice that I had marked it. Must have a "show me all those I marked interested" feature.

Thanks

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We have marked a number of profiles “no interest” because their listed upper age limit is well below our ages. Those profiles are essentially saying they aren’t interested in us anyway, so why not flag them as “no interest.” That way, they don’t show up in the search function and fill the screen with profiles that there’s no sense contacting. It’s just a tool for the member and not a measure of other users worth. We would like the ability to search on the interest levels that we have flagged.

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And will they suggest some ideas (constructive crit. is great)

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My only question is: Will you be able to see who is rating you?

Puryear TN
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I think it's a great idea. If you are secure in yourself what do you care what others think! It gives you an idea what is or is not working. Hence "edit"

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Ms2, Can you tell I have an interest in your frog?

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