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TOPIC: Member Interest Levels
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does an x on a members profile indicate they are not interested in me ?

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opt out of that would be a great member benefit

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>How about adding the 'viewed profile' feature

Man, I hope they don't unless you have an option to opt out!

Yeah, it can be an icebreaker, but what if you read a profile and realize "hell no, we do NOT want to meet them!" Next thing you know, you get a message from them saying "Hi, we saw that you read our profile. Want to meet?" AWKWARD!

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How about adding the 'viewed profile' feature other sites have? It's good for a subtle 'icebreaker'. : )

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We love this feature! We wanted the ability to hide those we are not interested in and know we would never be interested in so we didn't have to sit through them over and over!. Thank you!!!!


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It's a great feature! It would be much more useful, however, with:

1. The ability to search by star rating or minimum star rating 2. The ability to sort searches by star rating, ideally by star rating, then distance

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>that like button on facebook wouldn't be so popular

A "like" button here would just make it easy for lazy people. How many people on Facebook just click "like" for every post someone makes. "I got a new job." Like. "I had a bagel for lunch." Like. " I pooped today." Like. " I tripped and fell down a mineshaft and a rabid flying snake ate my face off." Like. No thought involved.

Be honest... You know that thousands of single guys go through and "like" EVERY DAMN SINGLE FEMALE AND COUPLE PROFILE they find, just to get a hit. They wouldn't read profiles (beyond maybe the main photos) to see if there's a match, they would just click, click, click. You click a hundred times a day, seven days a week, and if anybody writes back, THEN you read their profile and see if there's real interest or a real match. Before anyone bitches that I'm singling out single guys, yes, couples and women would do the same, but let's be honest about who would start flooding the site.

From the other side, can you imagine a hot unicorn getting hit with several hundred "likes" a day? Who has time to respond to, or even look at that many? It all just becomes noise, and they end up ignoring them completely.

Anything worthwhile in life takes some effort, and that includes getting laid.

Now, if SLS has a canned introduction email (like the canned "thanks, but no thanks" responses) that gives you options like "You look interesting. Would you like to chat?" or "Your photos are hot" or "We're in the same area, would you like to meet?" then that might work. It's not much more work than a "like" button, but it at least requires SOME thought and effort.

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cburg

like like like

Grosse Pointe MI
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tablefor3, if email was such a good replacement, that like button on facebook wouldn't be so popular

Christiansburg VA
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The member interest level is not sent on to the other user at all. It is used for your purposes only.

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TOPIC: Member Interest Levels