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TOPIC: Interested
Created by: TwoCountry_tx
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Possibly a column where you could add people you were interested in without necessarily contacting them. Similar to the friends list. When you put someone in this column, they could see who all has them on there Interested list. Then they would already know before the contacted them that there was a mutual interest. Would make it much easier to contact someone if you knew before hand they were also interested. Would also let someone know you were interested in them even if you didn't contact them. Then they may contact you. Just a thought to make getting shy couples together a little easier.

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I think that you will find that most people you see as "Ken&Barbie" don't view themselves as such. The very people you won't write to cause you think they're out of your league, might not be writing to you cause they think you're out of theirs.

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Wow, wish we had the time to look through all the features, but really don't and sure most couples don't either, with work, family, the demands of life, so those features are somewhat useless for us. I guess we are old school, if we see someone we are attracted to we write them and it is their choice whether they respond. What kills us more than anything is the statement "KEN AND BARBIE OR BRAD & JEN". If people are that vein and into their looks, who would want to meet them anyways? Everyone has preferences, of course, but those are two phrases that just don't fit in on a swinger's site.

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That's just my point Content. For example, we met a couple at a meet and greet that we would never have contacted because they are 10yrs. younger than we are. Not only have we really enjoyed playing with them, they have turned out to be some of our best friends out of the bedroom. All though we would not have made initial contact, if we had seen they had put us on a list to show that they were interested, then we probably would have contacted them. Thank goodness for the meet and greet, or we would have missed out on a really great couple. Makes me wonder how many couples are interested in each other, but neither will make first contact. If you could go to a list to see what couples had put you on their Interested list, might be a easier to find couples, and a LOT easier to get them together.

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After looking at your profile, I can understand that. You are very pretty. We are not exactly young, or HWP. Not obese, but not pretty people at all. Sometimes it's a little harder for us to contact people because of that. You never know if they are looking for personality, or for Ken and Barbie. That can be very intimidating. And that definition is different for everybody. That would take away the intimidation of contacting a couple who you had not met, by letting you know they did not consider you to be butt ugly just because you have a few extra pounds, or because your 10yrs. older than they are.

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Possibly a column where you could add people you were interested in without necessarily contacting them. Similar to the friends list. When you put someone in this column, they could see who all has them on there Interested list. Then they would already know before the contacted them that there was a mutual interest. Would make it much easier to contact someone if you knew before hand they were also interested. Would also let someone know you were interested in them even if you didn't contact them. Then they may contact you. Just a thought to make getting shy couples together a little easier.

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