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"The bad thing about that is if you meet up with someone that is not to your liking you will be stuck with them all night. "

I disagree. Since we don't make plans to play that evening with the couple we've met for dinner, all we have committed to is the amount of time we want to remain with them. A couple weeks ago we met a new couple for dinner and spent 4 hours talking to them over the meal, dessert, coffee, etc. We will be seeing them again, I'm sure. This week we met another couple for dinner, conversing over 2 1/2 hours. The spark wasn't there to take it further in the 2nd case, but we did enjoy our time with them. Not a moment was wasted in either case, and the sex we had at home afterward was outstanding.

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Something to add on here. If you put all your eggs in one basket you may get disappointed. Ill explain. We use to do the typical dinner thing for a first meeting. The bad thing about that is if you meet up with someone that is not to your liking you will be stuck with them all night.

We have opted to sometimes meet people at a LS club. Yes it may be a little more expensive but if you have someone that ditches out on you or they do not seem like a good match you will not be chained to them all evening and you can move forward with maybe finding someone else to your liking.

Hope this may help.

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I agree with losamantes regarding your public pictures. Photos of you fully dressed, even with faces blurred, will draw much more positive attention than the boobs and butt pics you have now. While scanning the thousands of posts of the SLS Forums, look at the pictures people are using. If one catches your eye, open their profile and see what other poses they provide. You can get some great, creative ideas to use when posing for your own pictures. Good luck.

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Hi nems, this thread probably belongs in the "finding friends" forum, but since we're here... We second everything TBabe says. Your profile has a lot of good information, but the tag line and the shouting in the first paragraph come across to us as hostile. We're a pretty typical SLS couple (so we think, lol). When we screen profiles we look at the pics first to see if there is any physical attraction. If there are no pics, or just close-ups of butts and boobs, we move on without any further reading. "Don't like", or "don't contact us if" come across to us as negative. You seem like a nice couple, try adding some g-rated whole body pics and reflect a more positive, friendy tone in your profile and you'll have more luck attracting the high quality friends you're looking for.

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thank you so much totalbabe what you have said has helped and thanks for your opinion and advice means alot!!

Tupelo MS
 
 
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we have done the public pics not blurred and blurred still nothing

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we are new to this and have talked with people on here and they say they wanna meet us and we set up a day and time and place to meet but then they send mail saying cant meet on the same day we suppose to meet,,we understand things come up but everytime? been like 6 or 7 couples that has done this we dont understand we are nice to everyone when we talk to them and couldnt be any more polite just dont know what we are doing wrong?? getting bout ready to hang this up and delete account do any of you out there have any suggestions? or opinions? we gonna give it about one more month if nothing happens or might even prolly wait till our paid subscription is up then delete HELP!!

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