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TOPIC: Uploading pics and couples who only post pics of the female
Created by: foxymama51
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Doubt there is anything anyone can do about this, but maybe if a few people read it, word might get around. I constantly get asked by paid members if I will e-mail them photos to their e-mail addresses. Why on earth would I do that? I do not like to give out my e-mail address to anyone I don't know and open myself up to possible spam and viruses. And I have public and private pics posted. So they can see what I look like, and if I talk to them and feel comfortable, I give access to my private pics or e-mail them one here on sls. I get the distinct impression that none of these people are reading your help menu on photos. It is pretty simple, and not rocket science. And if they have trouble, all they have to do is send tech support an e-mail and ask for help. I know you have a warning printed in red each time someone is sending an e-mail. But maybe an e-mail to new members when they join, telling them there is plenty of help about uploading pics and how secure the site is, how you do not allow anyone to copy photos from the site. I used to try to answer these e-mails, and have now got to where I ignore them.

Second thing, and a short one, all of the couples out there on the site, please post pics of your male half when you are posting pics. If you are interested in attracting single females, bi or straight, I think I can safely say we all like to see pics of the man as well as the woman. Just a suggestion guys, I know I am a lot more inclined to meet a couple if they both have photos on the profile.

Foxy (Who is probably just venting, in South Texas)

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Pictures don't give you any clue about "who you are," only about "what you look like." A well written, more than a few words profile can give an idea of "who you are."

Still, the absence of any pictures at all, or keeping all picutres private, gives us an idea that someone is less than forthcoming, which is a red flag. We can understand if someone doesn't have a digital camera or a scanner, but uploaded pictures that are all private eliminates that excuse.

I'm sure it doesn't apply to everyone, but the people we've met who are so ultra-secretive that they can't even show us a G-rated picture in advance of meeting have turned out to be people who were so secretive even when we met that we declined to ever get together with them. If people won't share information about themselves, then it's possible they have something to hide. More often than not, such secretive people turned out to be "newbies" who simply are not yet really comfortable with swinging, and as such are not for us. There are just too many fish in the sea for us to take chances on people who hold their cards so close to the vest.

Jim

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What get's us more are those that post all their picures "PRIVATE". Gee be wiling to put one "G" picture for others to get some idea of who you are.

Gasport NY
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You just have to becarefull who you talk to...and you can steal pictures off this site...a simple screen capture will get it...now Couples that only post pictures of a female is subject of topic in lifestyle site...sometimes it doesn't mean anything then sometimes the pictures are too good to be true...I've seen several porn model pictures on here...there's alot of Single and Married men who are only after pictures and have to make up a female pic...you just have to becarefull who you talk to!!

The webmasters here have tried their best to make this a great place to meet people...when we finally joined here we ditched all our other accounts at the other sites...this site lacks some features that I would love to see added and I would love to help add some really fun stuff if the webby will allow me to help!

but that's another forum...lol

Carrollton GA
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Doubt there is anything anyone can do about this, but maybe if a few people read it, word might get around. I constantly get asked by paid members if I will e-mail them photos to their e-mail addresses. Why on earth would I do that? I do not like to give out my e-mail address to anyone I don't know and open myself up to possible spam and viruses. And I have public and private pics posted. So they can see what I look like, and if I talk to them and feel comfortable, I give access to my private pics or e-mail them one here on sls. I get the distinct impression that none of these people are reading your help menu on photos. It is pretty simple, and not rocket science. And if they have trouble, all they have to do is send tech support an e-mail and ask for help. I know you have a warning printed in red each time someone is sending an e-mail. But maybe an e-mail to new members when they join, telling them there is plenty of help about uploading pics and how secure the site is, how you do not allow anyone to copy photos from the site. I used to try to answer these e-mails, and have now got to where I ignore them.

Second thing, and a short one, all of the couples out there on the site, please post pics of your male half when you are posting pics. If you are interested in attracting single females, bi or straight, I think I can safely say we all like to see pics of the man as well as the woman. Just a suggestion guys, I know I am a lot more inclined to meet a couple if they both have photos on the profile.

Foxy (Who is probably just venting, in South Texas)

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