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User Details are only visible to members.	WGa said "..if you know a couple has been around the block so to speak...most people are not very willing to meet them at first and I've seen a lot of couples/singles turn up their nose and won't have anything to do with them at all." I'm 46 years old. I'm not a nun. I have been active all my life. I'm not that busy... Like anything in life one's Odometer doesn't get reset. Personally, I would turn my nose up at anyone with that attitude. In 3 decades..I've been around the STATE. Especially, if you count my partner's activities. I have a problem with folks that believe quantity is a bad thing. It only takes one. There is NO safe anything. Frequency CAN increase the risks. I personally have a problem with people who play drunk. I know how sloppy drunk folks can get. My sober eye is very attuned to drunks. I refused a drunk woman Saturday. My gf was up for it. I don't "do" drunks. They may not even remember being unsafe. My pet peeve..quantity=risk..just live long enough. Certifications help with singles. I read single male certifications. I look at who certified them. Is the certifier's profile filled out, make sense..etc. Women, I judge on the content of their mail, profile, etc. BTW, What better incentive to lie? Knowing you will be black listed for doing what you came here to do. Be warned! Mischief <knows several states...not blocks LMAO.</textarea> </form> </body> </html>
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	oh I totally agree....all I'm saying is too many can be a bad thing ;)
Carrollton GA			Username hidden (43 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We think certifications are important..It tells you several things: It lets you know who is active in the lifestyle.. who gets out there and meets people... and tell you who is real. It does not necessarily say I slept with this one and I slept with that one. Alot of our certifications are from friends we have made in the lifestyle, not just ones we played with. R & K
Muncy PA			Username hidden (2891 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	you misread what I said....never said you should stop...but alot of people do look at it that way...how many people have they been with...who have they been with..etc.. bottom line is this..and I've heard this from several couples/singles at clubs and socials...and anywhere else the topic comes up...if you know a couple has been around the block so to speak...most people are not very willing to meet them at first and I've seen alot of couples/singles turn up their nose and won't have anything to do with them at all. I'm just saying certifications are good because it's lets people know that someone has met you and says your real...and that's nice to know with all the game players around today...
Carrollton GA			Username hidden (43 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	we look at certifications like a Credit report...the more someone pulls your credit the worse your Credit Rating gets ;) But it is nice to know that someone has met them and had something good to say about them!
Carrollton GA			Username hidden (43 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have never and will never base any possible and/or future meetings on certifications with anyone we would like to meet. In our opinion until you personally meet them, no other opinion but your own opinion after meeting should count, plain and simple. Never prejudge anyone until you meet them is our motto.
Johnstown PA			Username hidden (11993 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Jean, what you say brings up an interesting point. Just how many certifications become too many? We'd be interested in knowing whether people have been turned off by couples who have too many certifications. Maybe we should do some "thinning" with ours ?????
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (1153 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	How about a different color check mark for the one's that play and the one's that just meet ? This is diffinitly a tough subject, but again we all have the right to accept a cert ot not to, we are all adults and should not be hurt if someone does not accept a certifacation. Personally at first i thought it was not a good idea thought it was like marking a notch in your bedpost but after thinking about it and accepting one wow we have meet lots of great cpls. and alot of goood friendships. Just my opinion and good luck to all Jean
East Otis MA			Username hidden (392 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Now has anyone figured out a way for us to certify people who are fakes or flakes ? We've ran across so many who can keep count! Has anyone else addressed this issue?
Carlsbad CA			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We agree that certifications can be used a recommendations, and in that sense they can be very helpful. A couple people have contacted us saying they decided to write after reading our certifications! So they seem to be working for us. Mesquite, we can definitely decline a certification if we feel embarrased about the couple offering it. Luckly most couples we've met are not in that category!
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (1153 post)

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